usually I try to say something bold to make myself stand out. To make the girl think “wow, all other guys are boring, finally someone different”
When I say something bold, it’s hard for the girl to know if I am a psycho, or just a confident guy. I will give you an example. I used my “are you watching porn” trick (see my first post ever on this forum)

So today this girl was walking on the side walk, and I was just standing there, waiting for a colleague. She was looking at her phone. While she was passing by, I asked “are you watching porn?” she said “what?” I said “are you watching porn on your phone?” she said “no, I am texting” and kept walking away. Then I said “because I don’t want to have to end up calling the authorities on you” at this point, she was a good distance from me already, but she did look back and say something I couldn’t hear.

Then my phone rang and the business colleague asked me to go up to his office. So I went, and this girl was also on her way to that same building. So it looked like I was following her. Then I was waiting for the elevator, and she was there too. I told her again “I don’t want to end up calling the cops on you” she told someone else that was waiting by the elevator (I think they knew each other) “he says I am watching porn” I said “you were totally watching porn” she showed me her phone and said “no, I was texting” I said “oh, you were sexting, not texting, right?”

Then the elevator came, and she told her friend “I don’t want to get on the elevator with this guy” I got on the elevator but she didn’t.

Those are the exact words I used, I am not paraphrasing. Do I sound like a psycho here? How can I show someone that I am not a crazy rapist and I am just joking?

PS you can be as blunt with me as you want, I won’t get offended, I am here to learn.

You sound like you're doing silly tricks and trying too hard.

Be confident in yourself.

What would you think if some random person walked up to you and said, "Are you watching porn?"

You'd think they were weird, is what you would think.

Hey mate. I have a few things for you to consider.

1. While I believe you can potentially open successfully with pretty much anything, if you're going to open with something like that (during the day no less) you need to get the delivery perfect. You need to be confident but also make it clear that you're joking. If she thinks you're serious there is a 0% chance it's gonna work. But even if you get the delivery perfect a lot of girls might still get freaked out with an opener like that.

2. If it doesn't work the first time and the girl reacts badly, do not keep saying it over and over. Implement RSD Julien's three steps to fix a set if you step over the line. 1: Take a physical step back away from her. 2: Make a statement of empathy (eg "Hey, I'm sorry I was only joking"). 3: Change the subject and act like it never happened (eg "So what do you study?").

3. Despite what I've said above I would recommend using a more reliable opener. For example, during the day I usually open with something along the lines of "Hey, I saw you walking by, thought you were cute and wanted to say hi". It's simple but effective.

4. You may also find my recent post entitled "Calling Out The Awkwardness" helpful. You can find it here calling-out-the-awkwardness-vt177947.html

Hope you found this helpful. Good luck.

Sly-Mike

I would use that porn line as a nag and not a opener. It also seemed like you were dragging it out and should of switched to new material at the elevator. No one line will ever open women's eyes and make them see that you are different than all the other guys. It takes time to convey the complexity of your personality and thoughts through the limitations of language.

Hope I was of some insight.
Kearney

You dragged it out too long. After you asked if she was watching porn and she said no you should've been like "suuuure you're not" and just dropped it. Don't even keep talking to her, unless she decides she wants to keep it going, and don't bring up porn again if she does.

With day game you should go from shock to comfort.

So whilst I advise against opening with something like that as a fair few girls will hear the word "porn" and run a mile. Yes girls watch Porn but they also watch ALOT of TV about creepy guys and people that use the word porn = DANGEROUS!!! you can still open with it and then switch to comfort THEN you can recall it later when the comfort is built.

Example:

You: Are you watching porn on your phone.

Her: No <insert offended statement>

You: My bad, I just wanted to get your attention. <AFC statement but converts "are you watching porn" from creepy to alpha.

Her: Oh...

You: Come for a 5 minute coffee with me.

*Go for coffee, build comfort, kino and such*

Her: Okay well I best be going.

You: Whats your number?

*gives number*

You: Sweet, now you can text me instead of watching porn

Her: <inaudible amount of giggiling>

Rare thing indeed, I'm going to agree with everyone here.

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