i didnt read ur FR, but are u trying to sarge or romance? waking you up in the morning is too inimate for a txt convo IMO, however, if u were on the phone and being more sexual than yea totally have her wake u up and before ui go to sleep just think about what u can say to her to excite her. thats what i would do. i dont think u should have frozen her, but u should have started a different conversation, and not mentioned the waking up, until a pause where you could have been like "hey you didnt wake me up like u were supposed to. your a disobediant girl!" but that may come off as needy if not placed properly.

im glad to find this thread because there are these several girls im sarging and texting calling and whatnot and i hate pauses, the one that im trying to start a relationship with i usually call and dont mention the text, but i wait like 45 mins. the one im just sarging for fun i just forget about it and talk later like it was nothing. im glad that what ive been doing is on par with what other PUA's go through

Right on. Well got the meeting sorted. So am I now looking to build more comfort or attraction? And which techniques should I use?

As far as not using text to "wake someone up", I disagree actually. I use phone AND text for that. I've got girls I do both with right at this moment. Each girl is different.

For what to next . . . you build attraction AND comfort. Got to amp both of them up in order to push for the next point. Which means using a lot of kino too. Sexual framing. Etc.

thats true but im getting the impression that the way he asked was at the end of the conversation, and she didnt respond, i could be wrong. but yea ive had girls wake me up its kinda nice to know that she thought of you and really boosts your ego. but i digress, i am more apt towards using the phone to wake up just because a text is so impersonal and i dont see how u would be impersonal if you ask a girl to wake u up, sleep IMO is pretty personal.
just my .02

Well, I haven't heard from her all day today so i'm wondering quite where i'm at. I'm gonna wait out 'til tomorrow afternoon and then ring her in the afternoon if I haven't heard anything, assuming we now have plans for Weds eve.

What do you think I should be doing?

Thats fine actually. You're putting space in there. And then, what you need to do when calling is go on the assumption that you DO still have the plans. Just let her know that you two will have fun and blah blah.

Here's the thing. I'm just worried that things are gonna be awkward if I ring her 'cause progressively over the last few days contact has been getting less frequent - not neccesarily a bad thing but...

What do I say? Launch straight into, "So. Tomorrow night."?

Consider it a part of the push/pull technique. You push her away with one thing you say or action you take, and you pull her back with another. You should be able to not talk to her for a couple of days, and everything still be fine between you, so why is that a problem?

The key is for YOU not to feel awkward. YOU need to be completely comfortable with yourself on the phone, and THAT will come across to her.

Hey here's the latest MSN convo:

O says:
Hey
Livi... says:
heloo
Livi... says:
yu okie doke?
O says:
yeah i'm really good thanks!
O says:
your fine self?
Livi... says:
yee im bonny thanku!
O says:
bonny haha
O says:
you were at college today?
Livi... says:
aha yee bruv
O says:
right on. was it gooood
O says:
/
Ollie says:
?**
Livi... says:
as good as it gets!
Livi... says:
wot yu bin doin?
O says:
haha right on.
O says:
been doing BORING admin today
O says:
and picked up my friend from hospital
O says:
exciting stuff!
Livi... says:
oohh why was he/she is hospital?
O says:
she was in 'cause she broke her wrist
O says:
so just A+E
O says:
but
O says:
there we are, me always caring
O says:
haha
Livi... says:
ahah ye ye
O says:
what have you been up to missy?
Livi... says:
working!
O says:
college or evanzzz?
Livi... says:
college! thank goodness!
O says:
haha. is it REALLY that bad at evans?
Livi... says:
ahah not reli! the women are nice ther! lol
O says:
is that telling me the women are nice, or is there something I need to be asking YOU livi?!?
Livi... says:
ahaha! no!
Livi... says:
the women are friendly! ahaha
O says:
ahhh right on
O says:
i'm gearing myself up for this piercing. i reckon it's gonna fuckin' kill
Livi... says:
it reli will! ahaha
Livi... says:
i need to check with my mum if its kl i can go actually lol
O says:
!
O says:
best be missy
Livi... says:
ooh dear! hahaa na it shud be kl!
O says:
good! you're booked in so you'll make me a very sad ollie if you're not there
Livi... says:
uhh ohh ahah no it shud be fine!
O says:
good good!
O says:
what time do you want to meet/
Livi... says:
eerm, hang on let me chek wot time i finsih college
O says:
'kayyy
Livi... says:
okies i finish college at 4.30
O says:
okay
O says:
i have a meeting at Sony until 5.15
O says:
so I could be with you in central london by 6?
Livi... says:
yee!
O says:
awesome.
O says:
where do you wanna meet blondie?
Livi... says:
whers gd for yuuuu?
O says:
i really don't mind, wherever's good for you!
Livi... says:
errm, well wher are yu gettin yur thingy ma bob pierced?
O says:
oxford street most likely.
Livi... says:
well jus meet wher we sed we wud before!
O says:
nike town?
Livi... says:
yess bruv
O says:
alright sis
O says:
so 6 at nike town
Livi... says:
yeeeee!
O says:
sexy.
Livi... says:
jus a warning, i will look shit rough ahaha i always do after college
O says:
oooh okay.
O says:
i'll bear it in mind
Livi... says:
ahah good move
O says:
just a warning
O says:
i'll look shit hot. i always do.
O says:
!
Livi... says:
haha i'll bear tht in mind sonny
says:
okay missy
says:
btw! did you get my facebook message?!?
O says:
how good is that??
Livi... says:
i avent bin on ther yet!
O says:
omgz do it.
O says:
it's totally essential.
O says:
by the way
O says:
do you like bullet for my valentine?
Livi... says:
not heard a lot of them!
O says:
hmm okay
O says:
no worries.
O says:
did you hear, i'm DJ'ing at the next West Rocks.
Livi... says:
are yu relli?
O says:
yerr
O says:
and also i'm actually working that next one with the ol' magik
O says:
so you'd better be there, keep me in line, 'cause i'll have girls falling at my feet
O says:

Livi... says:
ahah woteva!
O says:
true!!
Livi... says:
aha yes well i always ave lads fallin at my feet, so yu best watch yurself..mate.
O says:
oh right.
O says:
well we've both been victims of eachother's seduction then!
Livi... says:
ahahaha! quite!
O says:
yep!
O says:
been on facebook yet girrrl?
Livi... says:
no i ave not boyyyy
O says:
mmmmmmmmmmmm babe
O says:
really want you to see this thing
O says:
it's so weirdly relevant
O says:
but
O says:
i shall wait it out.
O winks:

Play "Silly Face"
Livi... says:
ahaah ye yu beta wait it out
O says:
oooh or what? hmm/
Livi... says:
yu dont want to no, wot i cud do...
O says:
actually quite scared.
O says:
that is a false statement.
O says:
i bet.
O says:
i bet i could beat you in a fight.
O says:
i'd even go one handed to make it fair.
Livi... says:
aha yu wud definately not beat me,
O says:
we'll see.
O says:
i am a big rugby player remember..
Livi... says:
yer as am i
O says:
oh shit yeah i forgot.
O says:
!
O says:
wow, I sure better watch out tomorrow
O says:
or i'll get my ass kicked
O says:
that'd suck.
Livi... says:
yee yu beta watch yurseld
O says:
i think i might come in a suit of armour tomorrow
O says:
not only to see you, but also turn up at sony in a suit of armour
O says:
that's one way to make an impression i guess¬!
Livi... says:
ahah well yes! wots happening at sony?
O says:
I have a meeting with a big A+R guy about investing in my new act
O says:
quite a lot of money, so need to play it cool with him.
Livi... says:
ohh golly, wot are yu goin to wear?
O says:
um normal clothes?
O says:
it's not a suit kind of industry really..
O says:
might wear my checkered(even though they're meant to be stripy) jeans.
Livi... says:
yessss mate, golly good lick!
Livi... says:
or luck whichever yu wud like?
O says:
i'll take the former thanks
Livi... says:
wots former?
O says:
the first thing you said.
Livi... says:
aha good lick
O says:
cheers
O says:
good lick to you too
O says:
for
O says:
um
O says:
the sake of licking?
Livi... says:
aha we like a lick
O says:
yes, yes we do
O says:
it's an ace activity, licking eachother
O says:

Livi... says:
haha yes it is
O says:
how's your neck coming along?
Livi... says:
ok actually! i got my scarf caught it in today ahahah and catherine had to sort it out
Livi... says:
but yer apart from tht lol
O says:
oh that sucks.
O says:
haha
Livi... says:
yes it does
O says:
babe listen i have to run for 20 mins
O says:
but i'm gonna stay online
O says:
so i'll be back soon which you'll enjoy!
Livi... says:
haha alrite ducky!
O says:

Livi... says:
yu bakkk?
O says:
yuh-huh
O says:
didja miss me?
Livi... says:
not reli
Livi... says:
ahaha
Livi... says:
yer i did!
O says:
good!
O says:
i actually have to run again
O says:
i'm sorry!
Livi... says:
noo yu dont dikhed
O says:
i dooo
O says:
sorry
O says:
but
O says:
i'll make it up to you
O says:
i'll ring you later
Livi... says:
alrite lovey, yu beta
O says:
ok
O says:
speak to you later xx
Livi... says:
xxx

For the record, there is no friend of mine in hospital.