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I met this guy online. I have a drug problem. I knew he was a PUA because I knew about negging, and he negged me and then I was paying attention. He did many other PUA things.
It's a long story, but I just want him to drop the PUA stuff, but I feel like he won't.
One of the worst things you can do in relationships is guess how the other person is feeling/thinking. Ask him. Ask him if he's learning to be a PUA. If he is, it sounds like he's doing it wrong. Once you know, you can discuss how his behavior is making you feel.
To give an example of why you shouldn't guess another person's feelings, he might very well be thinking you like him more because of his actions.
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I started doing drugs again and I feel like he is just playing more games with me instead of caring about me doing drugs.
Would be nice to know what drugs you're doing. It sounds like you might be a little bothered by the drugs you're doing though, so try to stop. This guy shouldn't have any effect on your drug use. If you're saying the way he treats you is part of why you went back on drugs then kick him out of your life. You deserve better.
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It seems like whenever I get feeling good and strong, he says something to give me a kick in the shins.
If he's really undermining you and your confidence get rid of him. Or at least let him know what he's doing is wrong and pissing you off or hurting you. Again, even if he is trying PUA material on you it sounds like he's screwing it up somehow. A neg is NOT a flat out insult.