I have this wierd occurance where I have a tendency of having the opposite of nice guy syndrome. I don't know, I guess I have a tendency to be arrogant or pompous because I was always the star athlete or the smartest in high school. I'd rather tell someone fuck you than give her smile sometimes. I'm wierd. I make friends from an intellectually morbid humor and not many girls are the same. But when I go to compliment a girl on something she wears I can't really pick out anything I like that she's wearing (or I just don't care. I don't f***ing care about women's fashion. Big surprise. I'm a guy) so I'd rather be all "f*** what your wearing. I think you're kind of cool though." or some sarcastic humor that plays on the problems of the world. I mean, I can be upbeat but it just ends up with me making people feel bad about themselves. Anybody have this jerk syndrome or know how to fix it?

Yeah, had that for many years. But I could'nt do it anymore, because the situation changed. I didn't go to school anymore. I resisted to change, but after a while other thing had to be in perspective. So the focus changes and everything else with it.

Change you intentions ... instead of putting them down ... Come out like you are challenging them.
For example: You are calling a girl a dog and telling her to come her like how you would with a dog. Then say,
"Come her doggy ... " ... With a smirk on your face (<< challenging intention) ... Then say:
"Ya I called you a dog. What are you going to do about."

- This is the same principal as a little kid in elementary school teasing girls. But, you are doing in a "FUN AND CHALLENGING" matter.
- That smirk helps a lot ... but again it's all in your intention.
* You can call girls sluts, whore, dog ... whateves but, as long it is coming in a fun and challenging intention!

- If she takes it the wrong way ... you calibrate by,
1) Step back
2) Say a statement of empathy.
- Empathy is defined that you understand how they feel.
3) Resume like it didn't happen.

For example: Girl gets pissed off that you called her a dog

1) Step back
2) Say, "My bad ... I was just joking." (<< Best line if you over calibrate to much!)
3) Say, "How old are you?" ... "Where are you from?" ...
- Bombard her with multiple questions so she forgets why she is mad about.

If you have a cocky personality ... then you can balance by self deprecation. Basically, you are making fun of yourself. Comedians do this a lot.

For example, I tend to cut girls off when they talk or change the topic when I am bored with what they are talking about. This is a form of frame control ... but, this can come out as being rude. So I self depreciate saying, "I just graduate from kindergarden school and I ride the short bus."
or
If I say to many rude and perverted things or I am to physical ... I would say, "I am asian ... I just immigrated ... I'am not familiar with your culture. Back in my country ... it is ok for the man to grope the woman over excessively." Then continue with what I am doing.

Taahhahaha ....

Sincerely,

Donston

Thanks man. That really helps a lot. I'll start using more non-verbal cues to express my interest like expressions, body language, and kino.

Mate,

this opposite of nice guy scares off the HB6's and HB7's. They will think you are jerk.

The HB8's and HB9's might be attracted in the beginning, but if you continue this behaviour, these HB's will lose interest.

Tone down