well that's what i was gonna do originally but then decided to get some advice and see maybe someone was in a situation like this before or knows something i don't. Trust me i meet enough girls (not lately coz i just got out of long term relationship. but i used meet a lot of girls and personalitywise nobody even comes close to her)

I'm really looking for an advise how to get that girl not a girl. I'm not a pro pua but it's not a problem for me to get laid if i want to, so if you're trying to help i really appresiate it but im looking for help only with that specific girl.

And that's the problem. You are trying to get that specific girl. She might want a relationship, might not. The best way to know is talk to her. If she does not than there is no magic bullet, trick, tactic that will help you. And I talk from experience. Sometimes in life there are things that we just can't get. So we have to accept that and move on.

i see your point "AFCToTheMax" Im probably gonna end up doing that - just talk to her, but first i wanna try ignorring her and see what happens...

Absolutely nothing is what will probably happen.

She might think you're more of a dick.

Seriously, what others have said - either game other girls to get over her, or I SUPPOSE if you really want this one, and you're damned dedicated to it, balls out tell her. She will, as again, others have said, probably reject you, but maybe not.

If she DOES reject you, DO NOT PLEAD. DO NOT BEG. Say, "Alright then." and THEN don't talk to her as much, be distant (AND ACTUALLY HIT ON OTHER GIRLS - FOR REAL)

If she tries to follow after you, and is like, "Why are you ignoring me?" - you can tell her you really liked her, and that you are serious and don't want to waste time, and you're moving on to spend time with other women. It's not that you don't like her, but if she can't give you what you need, you can't spend as much time on her.

Which, FYI, is what you should truly believe too, if she rejects you, but I doubt you will.


If she does have ANY inkling towards you, this will make her feel you're more of a man and might even make her chase after you.


Might, but probably won't.


Again, hit on other girls. Not hitting on other girls is a mistake. Always. Even if you're in a committed relationship, you still need to keep flirting with other girls.


You're not doing that, and so you're not going to get with this one.