I'm trying the asshole approach with this girl I was seeing (we stopped inexplicitly but caught up last week like we used to when we dated) and I am wondering if I should wish her happy birthday today. I've been too nice to her and have been looking at doing so assholey things. She even said herself that she has a thing for assholes. I'm thinking no, but what do you guys think?

You know how girls always fucking complain about how they want to meet a nice guy instead of the typical Asshole? Well you know why that shit happens? Because girls fucking love Assholes!
Trouble is Assholes seem to have trouble sticking around.
Prison, sudden death, someone else’s Baby’s Daddy, things like that.
Now I’m NOT saying you need to be an Asshole to attract women, on the contrary. You need to look at the attributes that attracts women to that type of mind set.
Assholes are not needy, they don’t require validation from anyone, they are always self-serving, they are CONFIDANT, and they are independent. They believe in themselves wrong or right.

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Heywood is right. U don't need to become the bad guy. Just learn the best part of him and use them at your advantage!
And btw, personally I would say happy birthday because i usually do it to everyone i remember of, but if u don't usually, then do as u usually do (ofc, if u usually don'tdo that and now u do, u'll be giving her an IOI).

alright, i know this sounds so cliche, but it is true:

Be yourself, don't try to be someone else If she doesn't like, then too bad for her.

This is not good for your inner game: actually you are saying to yourself that being you is not good enough for the girl. This kills all your next games. What if the girl likes your act? How long can you keep up acting?
And what if the next girl you meet, like sweet/caring guys? You going to act again??

Be yourself! That is the best the girls can get

True. If you want to become better just don't be yourself, but your "best self". But you need to keep your identity. Beeing someone that you don't feel confortable beeing won't help you at all.

So when u guys just recently started talking again, did u start off in jerk mode or are u thinking of doing that based on a recent conversation?

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You'll need to learn to only do nice things for girls if they've earned it. If they haven't earned it, why should you?

Now, I'm not saying that if you saw a blind woman crossing the street, that you shouldn't help her. In fact, I highly recommend that you should help her because that will make you feel good about yourself.

This is different though with girls that you want to seduce. If you want to fuck a girl, let her earn every second of your attention and every inch of your cock. In the end, girls are more satisfied in this set up. It may look like it's a selfish thing but it isn't. In fact, making the girl work for your cock makes her feel alive.

How many dudes out there greet her a happy birthday and send her gifts? Do yourself a favor. Save your money and effort if the girl didn't do you anything good to deserve your gift or your greeting.

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Quite frankly you think so much of your cock that I'm surprised you aren't standing in front of a mirror right now smugly admiring it. Oh and you do not know girls AT ALL. Making the girl work for your cock makes her feel alive? Really? Somehow I think it'd make her feel like a fucking prostitute you freakin asshole.

Maybe he is? Anyways, to defuse this before it inevitably blows up, there is a bit of psychology to that. I wouldn't have put it the same way as Hellhound did, but there is a kernel of truth in there. Fact of the matter is many women are used to the lavishing, the gazing, and the free drinks. So giving them another shot isn't going to make you seem like a superstar or even make you stand out in a crowd; you're just another typical male that pandered to social norms.

Furthermore, by and large, guys just give their shit up. And there are many women that love to be waited on hand and foot by a legion of male servants. But just as those tropes exist, so does the woman who actually wants a challenge. I won't make the leap that HH did and say that every woman has to earn it; the types of women I'm interested generally aren't down like that and thus our variations of the game are different. But fact of the matter is there are women that are more excited by the challenge of what they may perceive as an alpha than by the zombie army she has at her whims.

If a woman is disposed to wanting to earn a man's affection - whether that's because of "daddy issues" or because they believe the challenge makes it more worthwhile - that's on them (and you for being attracted to them, I guess). We are here to bring the best strategies to the table when it comes to winning the game within the context of our own personal rules. Don't put another gamer on blast for approaching the game with a different perspective of the field or a different set of personal rules.

That's some pretty vivid imagination there about yours truly, uhm, and my cock. I wonder what other things you dreamt about my cock.
That's a sweeping generalization. I would say, I know 1 or 2 out of 10 new girls I open are very receptive to riding my cock. The other 80% to 90% are NOT receptive. I make no claims to knowing girls 100% since each person is different although some have similarities especially when you're sarging a very specific demographic.
It's like working so hard for your college degree. At the end of the day, most people who graduate with or without honors are so excited and look forward to the graduation ceremony.

Anything people work hard for brings in more satisfaction when they reap the rewards. The reward in this case is banging a girl's pussy real good and when you're about to cum, slap your cock on her face and jizz all over her eyes and forehead.

Don't tell me this kind of reward is fit for animals and NOT humans. Try slapping cock on a dog's face and the dog will probably play tug 'o war with it and dismember the poor thing.

With a cat, the feline will likely mangle the dick with scratches and if you're REALLY unlucky, perhaps you'll get a bite here and there.

With a girl, you get a happy face and a nice, hot meal. She'll also do your laundry if you ask her nicely after a good banging. What could be more human than that, hmm? Dogs don't cook. Cats don't wash clothes. Most girls who know how to cook are proud of their cooking skills. They are also very proud when their man is dressed really well in clean and well ironed clothes while they wrap their arms around his elbow marking their prized possession telling other girls to back off nonverbally.
A girl feels like a prostitute when guys try to buy their way into her pants. In this case, it's the reverse. You don't buy girls gifts or give them attention unless they've earned it. So it's moot and academic.

It's like earning a paycheck. In this case, it's earning a guy's attention and every inch of his cock.

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Wow! Let me give you a pat on the back Hellhound, well demonstrated! With those first two paragraphs anyway, but what does the animal comparisons have to do with the price of child labor for tea and toys in China?

and can we not request to ban Spy already? He's a loser.

Thank you.
The animal comparisons is a forward looking gambit since Digital_Spy accused me of treating women like animals in another thread. So, if the animal SPAM issue appears in this thread again, there's a ready answer. I wouldn't advocate slapping dogs with your cock for health reasons. The male Homo sapiens cock is meant to be slapped on the faces of female Homo sapiens who love the action.

As for child labor, they have it worse in Bangladesh. As for China, they have a bigger issue than child labor-- air pollution and a high carbon footprint from poorly regulated manufacturing. But since this is a pick up forum, let's focus on the pussy instead of child labor or air pollution. : )
It's okay. The spammers are the worst. Digital_Spy keeps us on our toes to clarify male perspectives on women and seduction.

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