Hi Guys,

I've been gaming this girl on and off for about 2 months (long distance). In the mean time I have dated and F-closed several others and have another lined up this weekend. I guess this one is getting at me because I haven't yet!

Previously at Uni we had kissed after a sports dinner but I had work & didn't really care at the time (I was in my peak, last term of Uni ever and had girls throwing themselves at me). Every guy I know thinks she is incredible and she has recently won a national modelling campaign. I didn't necessarily used to think she was that attractive but I tend to get swayed by others opinions/because others think she is all that I want to go there!

I re-initiated contact randomly a couple of months ago. We have met up a few times through birthdays and we have kissed each time but never been in a situation to F-Close/I maybe didn't work my game well enough to create the logistics. Anyway I'll admit I have lost frame a few times but regained it & we have maybe been texting too frequently (at least 1 every other day). She always goes on about how fun I am and how well I'm doing post university (she's still there) & how she's told her mom about me who also thinks I sound great. This weekend at a party I DHV talked to everyone there and all the key people (I was quite HV at uni as I was head a sports society and ran a nightclub night so know a lot of people) I noticed she kept coming to my direction looking for me to say Hi and after a couple of times (I was genuinely catching up with people) I did. We had a good chat and I went back to catching up. Later on I pulled her aside and we sat down and had a chat but she thought I was drunker than I was (she knows I go out a lot and can be a party animal but I genuinely wasn't that bad!). I tried meeting up on the Sunday but she was busy and "didnt get my text" until after I had left.

D-DAY!
On the Monday I told her that I just want it to be fun again rather than the drabble that it had turned into. I know she did or maybe still does have attraction to me (her friends tell me) but she basically text me saying LJBF & mentioned I am a great laugh and we have so much fun etc. I didn't reply for a day then I did on FB messenger (hers was a text) basically kinda did kinda didn't lose frame:

I basically used the HMS method and said how guys/girls cant be friends or at least close ones. I mentioned that in the past it has just lead to them falling for me. I mentioned that i only talk regularly to girls I wouldn't feel bad about kissing or doing more with & that she had ruled herself out of this category now. I mentioned that its unfair for guy and girl friends that are attractive, single, fun and enjoy each others company to categorize each other as friends as its not natural and you never know what could happen. (10:00 Today)

Her reply was along the lines of "oh my godddddd dont be so arrogant! Jesus its unnecesary ha" (16:20 Today)

So now I haven't text her for three days or FB messaged her since my HMS one this morning. She has since sent me two snap chats one just general of her going to dance class (13:00) and another saying "I said I wanted to be freinds...(with a sad face)(18:00). Im pretty sure this is because I havent text her for three days which is the longest since we have started talking again so she has figured something is wrong. She can obviously see that i have read her FB "arrogance" message because FB has that facility these days. She has also just liked my FB status and a picture...something she never does to guys as she likes to keep her "cards close to her chest".

So my questions are 1. how do i reply to the arrogance message? I know she really finds arrogant guys unattractive. Say that I don't think I'm any better or worse than anybody else no matter who they are we are all born, breathe, laugh, live & die then mention my life quote (Our deepest fear - Coach Carter). 2. how do I reply to her snapchat basically suggesting that she misses me but re-mentioning that she wants to be friends (she obviously thinks that she has lost me).

With regards to the type of girl. She's 20 but pretty immature for her age. Was in a long-term relationship with the guy who took her virginity from 14 until mid last year. She's probably the most feminine and innocent girl I know & is seen by many as a HB10 i'd say HB9 . Don't know if any of this helps.

Thanks Guys.

Ignore her, go on dates with 15 more women, then reinitiate....if you even want to after that.

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