My hook is that I can speak 5 languages, write Chinese, have a masters degree, well travelled, ambitious, whatever. I can drop stories about my big family, well anyway dhv isn't a problem.
The problem is I think I end up doing too much dhv and come across pompous. I struggle to find a balance. If I ask a question I connect well on the answer but it can be off putting that I can school people on most topics.

It's great because when I'm in a good mood I can amog any guy really easily.

I guess I can attract and connect, but I'm a little afraid of kino sometimes too.

Another problem I have is that I love curvy girls, but often they have self esteem issues. Once I start kino a lot of ASD comes up because they think I think they're just an easy lay (when I actually crave it haha)

I've tried using a self esteem NLP anchor, which was fun, but she got so confident she thought I wasn't worth her time anymore, shot myself right in the dick!
If you could suggest a good NLP pattern that would be cool. There's an easy scope for good push-pull, but I'm hoping an answer here would save me a lot of work. I'm living in auzzie hostels so why I'm not banging twice a night is beyond me!!

You're trying WAY too hard. It's much easier than you think to land women with lower self esteem. If you're an attractive, successful guy, simply be nice to them. (PS. This works with most women)

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Great advice, i've actually been told that before. I'm talking a lot less since i posted this a few days ago, and it's been helping