I talk to girls all the time and I can build attraction easily, the problem I have however is building rapport. I need to know how long to stay in the attraction phase before moving on! What if I only have a short time to build attraction and rapport? Most importantly how to build rapport

If you need a mechanical rule to follow, do as Mystery - change from attraction to comfort phase after three IOIs. As a natural, I would say "when you are convinced she is interested in you". If it doesn't come naturally to build rapport, you can do it consciously by using the NLP technique "pace and lead". When you learn about this technique you will realize the following:

1. The more different you and your target are as persons (the less "chemistry" you have), the more difficult you will find it to build rapport, even if you know the technique. It will be more cumbersome.

2. As you know what it takes to build rapport, you will start questioning whether it is worth the trouble with girls you don't have chemistry with. Hopefully you will come to the conclusion that it isn't, because you don't want to pretend being someone you're not.

3. Further, you will start selecting your targets more carefully and only approach those you know you will click with. And since you will choose those you have chemistry with, you will not need the pace and lead-technique at all.