I have a lunch date with this nice woman on Friday - first time face2face meeting from online dating. We talked on the phone and it went really well. No issue there. Originally we were going to go out on Saturday night, but this might work out better. Less stress and quicker first meet.

Ok, suppose it goes well. We really click and she might be free later that evening. Her son will be at a friends house Friday night and she should be free. No way of knowing unless I ask.

Question is, would later that evening be too soon or good to go for a second date? I say go for it.

Opinions welcome.

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WGY

"Do you have some good openers for Chinese girls?"
"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.

What is your ultimate goal with her? Relationship? Fuck buddies? Just a lay a few times?

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Good question. Hmmmm. I would say LTR.

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Thanks,

WGY

"Do you have some good openers for Chinese girls?"
"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.

Okay then I suppose lunch date is fine. Make sure that during the date, right from the start that you are physical. Touching her, light kino at first. The better the first date goes, the higher chance that you'll see her again.

Ask her if she is free. Make your intent clear from the start.

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Badda Bing! You know what, I woke up this morning thinking the exact same thing. See, a lunch (date) is rather neutral; not intimate. Too business-like; more like an interview. She has a definite time to eat as she has to get back from lunch.. She can't engage in any post-meal activities (make out, sex, etc) if she wants. I can't 'seduce' in as much but I can plant the seed of 'what if he and I did hook up' without ruining the rest of her afternoon.

So I think your idea of light kino is great! And yes, I need to make the intent clear. I want her, I want to be near her. I know we don't have a lot of time but I want and feel comfortable touching her and I want her to remember my touch and I want to see her again when we both are free(er). Kino. Yes!!! I can do that.

Grazi!

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Thanks,

WGY

"Do you have some good openers for Chinese girls?"
"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.

UPDATE:

The lunch date went REALLY well and we WILL see each other again! Its a 90% for sure.

One great idea for anyone for either a lunch or evening meal is Mongolian BBQ if you have it. Its quick enough (if there is a time constraint). No having to try to find something on the menu. Can be vegetarian/vegan if that's an issue. Pay by the bowl, or ours was are all-you-can-eat. When you make your bowl, YOU put in what and as much as you want so you don't look bad only eating a little or a lot. Taste is GREAT! Its an eating experience where you experience making your own. You get to watch a cool method of cooking. Some like mine can be gluten free if you want AND they take into consideration if you have food allergies (peanuts and peanut products can be a BIG problem).

You can't beat it! All depends on where you go though. I went to a chain called HuHot which I HIGHLY recommend!

_________________
Thanks,

WGY

"Do you have some good openers for Chinese girls?"
"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.