How do you deal with a person who talks and talks and talks. A windbag (or pompous windbag if you know them), who loves the sound of there voice. They can quickly control the flow of the conversation and make it really boring. So how do you stop the windbag from controlling the conversation?

Also how would you find out it if a girl has a veneral disease. She could look like she innocent enough, but could acidic veneral disease that disolves everything that comes in contact with it. But flat out asking her if she has one , would I think it would kill your chances with her. How would you find out about this, without relying on just intuition?

It depends on the circumsances your in I suppose. In all my past relationships, which have all been LTR (so this might be irrelevant in your specific case here) I've just said to the girl: It's dumb for us not to get tested, you never know what you could get from me. When she's happy with that, which she normally is straight away go and get a test (it's always good for peace of mind). Then you can tell her your clean and you'll be able to guilt trip her into it.

For one night stands or random pick ups use a condom.

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Well this is more in terms of short term or one nighters. Using a condom is a given. Don't want to risk having a kid either yet.

Then you should be fine. Maybe be a little bit careful of going down on her but otherwise *shrug*, I wouldn't worry about it.