Im a feminist, and I regularly go to my feminist organization's meetings. Its not only something I care deeply about, but its a great way to meet and learn about women. Im the only guy in the group and I get lots of attention and flirtation from the girls especially ones holding office positions. Its a good situation. I haven't done anything more than talk to them because I want to be more about the women who fight hard to achieve all that they have in the few months of the organizations existence. Now there there are two girls who I really consider my type that up until recently have got along with each other fantasticly, though I can't say they were close. We went to a Reproductive Justice Conference together with several other members and and being the only guy, I was given my own hotel room paid for by the school. I got to get to know a lot of the members in an open and public environment. The two girls, both attractive, one married, one single both showed lots of interest in me. The married girl is out of the question, (regrettably) and the single girl is has a lot of qualities I like. I want to approach her and ask her if she wants to go to the aquarium, but the Married woman will not have it. Anytime I try to approach she will make sure to come up to me for conversation or bring a group to discuss future agenda. Shes clever, and almost nice enough to make me believe she isn't devious as hell. But the single one is getting jealous and frustrated. I don't flirt when she comes up to me anymore, and shes getting more aggressive about not letting us speak. As much as I like her fight, im not willing to be the other guy. I don't want conflict here. I need these girls to be comrades. They need each other. I don't need to get with either of them, I just want them to get along again before their tension snaps.

What exaclty is it that you want? Do you want a long term relationship or do you want a fuckbuddy or do you just want them to be your friends so they can be friends and act all nice to each other again?

If you want fuckbuddies, then the married one is not out of the question at all, unless you have a moral problem with that. There must be a time where you have one of them a moment alone, doesnt need to be long. You jsut say something like:
"okay, this is my number, text me. Since other-girls keeps on harrassing us, lets go for a drink sometime so we can talk comfortably."

If you dont want the married one, or you want a LTR, you need to tell the married one that you are not interested in her like that. Be straightforward and honest. Its going to be harsh, but she needs to understand. Then give the other girl your number, so you can meet up at a time where you guys are comfortable to talk.

good luck!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

I need them to be friends. I don't want in-fighting. They are too valuable at this stage in the organization. If they were to leave or divide the women in the group, especially over a guy, it would tarnish the proffesor who has worked ridiculously hard to build it into what it is now. IIt would also discredit the organization as a whole. Its the unity of the members that has alowed for our popularity and respect on campus. Im not worried about sex above the integrity of the group.

If you need them to be friends, for the sake of the group (and really, i do understand), you need to make them clear taht you arent interested in either of them. Best thing to do is just say it straigth up. Or leave the group yourself.

good luck!

_________________
"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you