Saturday, 2/15/14
Met up with my wing to game. I felt in state so I was opening a lot of sets. Unfortunately, it was kind of a slow night so there weren't that many to open. I K-closed one older chick--I think she said she was 30. I pulled a few other phone numbers, but wasn't able to pull anything more. At the end of the night, I met up with the girl whose ass I jacked it on. We chilled and had a few nightcaps at her apartment. I ended up F-closing twice that night.

Sunday, 2/16/14
Woke up at the chick's pad and F-closed again once in the morning. She took me home in the late afternoon, and, as we hadn't eaten the whole day, we decided to grab dinner at a restaurant near my place. I asked for separate checks, and she looked me as fuck when I did. She started acting bitchy and asked why I wasn't going to pay for her. The fact that she asked made me feel all the more justified for NOT paying for her. Then she started getting really bitchy so I bounced from her and walked home. At this point, when you're not invested in any girl and have an abundance, you don't have to tolerate bitchy attitudes. I'm nexting this chick and am only going to fuck with her in the future if she hits me up for an easy lay, which she will sooner or later.

After her, I met up with my wing to run some day game. We only gamed for about an hour, and there weren't many sets at the shopping center we went to. The ones there were, I still felt too much animosity to comfortably approach. Going to have to work with day game some more to hone the skill set.

I day-twoed the church-looking girl I met on Friday at a coffee shop. I maintained strong eye contact as I always do on day twos and asked her to come check out my place about 45 minutes into the meetup. She agreed and followed me home in her own car. It was about a 20-minute drive back to my place so I was glad she agreed to come. We watched TV for a little while, then I started making out with her. As she was about to leave, I told her I wanted to cuddle for four minutes and set a timer on my phone. We lay on my bed, and I started kissing her neck. I ended up fingering her/eating her out and getting a hint of an HJ. But, I fucked up when it came to taking off my jeans. I wear skinny jeans, and it takes a few seconds to get them off. These few seconds were all that was necessary to break the fluidity of scoring a lay. By the time I got them off, she told me she didn't want to have sex, she didn't know me, blah blah blah. She left, but we made plans to meet up on Tuesday. If she doesn't flake, then I think I can score the lay next time we chill.

After her, I met up with my wing to run some Sunday night game. It was a pretty slow night as it was Sunday. We opened a four-set. They were out celebrating one of the girl's birthdays. I gamed the birthday girl. They got a table at the venue we were at and ordered champagne. Got some free champagne and one K-close off the birthday girl. What's significant about this K-close, is that it was my 42nd one of 2014. Last year, I pulled 42 K-closes, which was a record for me, and that was done over a span of about nine months. This year, I've pulled that same number in a month and a half. The game is definitely improving. To get back to the birthday set, I was sober tonight, and these chicks were pretty hammered so there was a bit of a disconnect to say the least. It was still early on in the night so I knew a full pull back to my place was next to impossible. I n-closed the birthday girl in hope of rendezvousing at the end of the night. I bounced from the party district to go scoop one of the girls I've been gaming. From what I remembered, she was pretty cute, but once I got her in light it was a different story. I seriously considered ditching her, but then realized that was too fucked up even for me. Had I been drunk, I probably would have done it in a heartbeat, but the sober me has feelings. Or, actually, had she not known where I live, I would have done it in a heartbeat. But she does know where I live, and I don't want her to bring some fools to jump me or something so I didn't. It fucked up my game though having her hovering around me, and, not going to lie, but I felt pretty embarrassed to be seen with her at the venue. She said we should go back to my place, but that she needed to pick up her house key before we could go. I took her back to her place to "let her get her key", and as soon as she went into her house, I sped the fuck out.

Overall day: one F-close, one finger/eat out close, a smidge of an HJ close, one K-close, and tied my previous record of the number of K-closes in one year. Not the worst day.

Lessons to learn from this:
There is no reason to tolerate bitchy attitudes. Remember that YOU'RE the prize. Instead of putting up with something you're not cool with, just next the chick and find more.
Whenever you pull a chick back to your place, IMMEDIATELY change into something that is comfortable and easy to take off. Had I changed into sport shorts as soon as I got into my apartment, I wouldn't have had any problem taking them off when the time came. Thus, there wouldn't have been any holdup and things would have been more fluid. This would have increased my chances of scoring the lay.

Monday, 2/17/14; Tuesday, 2/18/14

Just chilled with the ex. Got a few handjobs and fingered her. She's making out now. Nothing more to be said about game.

Wednesday, 2/19/14
Chilled with and had dinner with the ex, but dropped her off at home around 10 to go out with a wing around my apartment and game. Shit was pretty dead there. We met a two-set who was going to see Micky Avalon play at another bar in a nearby city. We shared a cab with them. As soon as we got there, the two set ditched us. Lol. Gamed the rest of the night, but nothing really big. Got to see a free Micky Avalon show. Not sure which was shittier: his performance or this night of game.

Thursday, 2/20/14
Went out with wing again. Not the hottest night. N-closed one chick. Most definitely going to be a flake.

Friday, 2/21/14
Ran day game for about two hours. Pretty unsuccessful. I definitely feel like I'm not built for day game at this point whatsoever. I feel like the bulk of my game is more aggressive/get-in-get-out, which aren't really compatible with day game so much. Or at least I don't know how to incorporate this style into a different setting yet.

Went out with two wings later in the night. I opened several sets on the street before hitting any bars but got blown out. I opened one girl on the street. I don't remember what I said to her, but she said something along the lines of get the hell out of here. I think I told her I loved her and then hugged her. When I hugged her, she kissed my neck. I told her to do it again, and she did. Then I just kissed her on the mouth. I'm pretty sure this was the fastest makeout I've ever pulled. It was literally about 10-15 seconds of interaction. I didn't even n-close her or get her name. We just went our separate ways after the kiss. Haha. The next thing after that, I went to one of the bars I usually frequent and saw my ex on the dance floor with her roommate. I was not going to miss this opportunity. I pulled the first girl I saw and asked her to do me a favor by dancing with me and making my ex jealous. We started dancing right in front of my ex. Later on, I even had my wing game my ex. He just danced with her for a little bit, then ejected. My ex left the area afterward. I hope it was because I was dancing with the girl. That would be pretty satisfying. The girl I was dancing with got us into one of the VIP booths. We were grinding on the couches and getting free drinks. (I also downed two of her drinks. I figured what the hell. Free drinks.) After the bar, I was trying to pull her, but her hideous fat friend was around and cockblocking as the usual hideous fat friend will do. I kept telling them we were going to get food at a restaurant near my apartment, but they ultimately decided not to go with us. I ended up K-closing the chick and getting her number, but I highly suspect she's going to flake.

Saturday, 2/22/14
Another unsuccessful day of day gaming. My wing and I went to a mall. I ended up just shopping and running no game.

I was invited to one of my classmates' parties, but I'm over hanging out with non-PUA peeps anymore so I went out with my wing later in the night to the same area we always frequent. I had plans to meet up with one of my regulars at the end of the night, in case I ran short of pulling anything new (which was extremely likely to be the case). I opened one bitchy set at a restaurant I always pre-game at, then several more on the street. But there weren't any biters. As my wing and I were chilling on the patio at one bar, we noticed this dude running game on several different sets. He was bouncing around from set to set so we decided to open him to see if he knew about PUA shit. It turns out he didn't, but I guess he just naturally loves hitting on girls. We mobbed with him to another bar and met two other dudes who were also all about picking up chicks. We got their contact info to meet up another time. The one dude who was rolling with us was a fucking beast. He didn't pull anything like a makeout or even a number (His phone was dead.), but the dude had absolutely no approach anxiety. He was also a tiny-ass dude, not good-looking, and not dressed up or anything. But he stayed in goddamn set after set for minutes at a time. The girls never walked away right off the bat. Several times dudes even crashed his sets, but he hung through it each time, and the dudes eventually rolled off. I'm not sure if this dude was really drunk, didn't give a fuck, a natural at heart, or a combination of all three, but he was even showing up me and my wing to an extent. AND he knew NO theory. I'm curious to know what he was talking about when he opened each set because he was definitely able to keep conversation going. Maybe having that understated look about him was disarming to girls. I need to beta up my appearance.

Other than this, I ended up n-closing two girls and pulling no makeouts. The one regular I had lined up flaked on me at the end of the night, but another regular hit me up. I ended up crashing her pad, but my goddamn condom dropped out of my pocket in my wing's car. Some fucking bullshit. So I just got head and fell asleep.

Sunday, 2/23/14
Mobbed with two wings for night game. We opened a three set at a low key bar early on in the night. Talked to that set for maybe 20 minutes, which has got to be the longest amount of time I've invested in a set in a very long while. I closed out my girl in the set with a makeout and a number pull and plans to meet up later in the night. After that, one of my wings and I met up with one of the guys we met last night who had a lot of connections in the area we were at. We crashed this one hot ass club for free because of our dude. Once inside, I ended up pulling three K-closes. Each one was from a French goodbye type of ejection. After the club, I hit up the girl from the beginning of the night. She wanted us to come over so my wing and I hit their place. We hung out for about an hour, playing drinking games and watching the girls smoke out. I knew we had to isolate to get the lay initiated. I asked my chick to go outside on the back patio to smoke a cigarette. We did, then I just leaned in and starting making out with her. I fingered her on the patio and asked her if there was a place we could go that was private. We ended up fucking on the floor in one of the spare rooms.

Lessons to learn from this:
I suppose something could be said about spending more time in a set. I normally don't invest as much as I did tonight in one, but being that this was a Sunday I didn't have high hopes AND my wings were keeping the set going for some time so I figured I might as well have a conversation. The girl I was talking to, I couldn't even tell if she was really feeling me that much. She had a pretty flat affect, but at the end of the convo, I figured I might as well go for the K-close. She macked pretty hard so I guess this goes to show that you should always try to take EVERY encounter as far as possible.

In regard to the other three K-closes, I was trying to be somewhat more conversational than I usually am in sets. I'd say I wasn't as aggressive or as much of a dick as I usually am. I still kept that eye contact like a goddamn psychopath, but I just wasn't as aggressive in terms of speech or moving the encounter forward. Maybe this shit works, to just chill up a bit and takes things somewhat slowly while also escalating in a way. Again, every single girl you meet, you might as well take it as far as possible. I usually try to at least K-close every set I open that doesn't blow out immediately. Fuck that number shit. Phone numbers equal flakes. You might as well get a makeout to boost your ego's sake.

Another thing can be said about making the right type of friends. The dude who got us into the club seemed to have a lot of connections. Having friends like this could be extremely beneficial. So when you go out, I suppose it wouldn't be a bad idea to be as social as possible. You never know what kind of leads you're going to land.

In terms of the F-close, it's important to escalate that shit as quick as possible. If you're at a girl's place or she's at your place, you both know what the fuck's up. So don't waste time and bust out the move.

Monday, 2/24/14
Met up with the girl whose ass I jacked it on and whom I fucked a week ago. It turns out it was her birthday, and she was at a bar two blocks from my pad. Long story short, the bitch was pretty much hating on me the whole time with her girl friend because I didn't pay for her last week, blah blah blah. No pulls, nothing.

Lessons to learn from this:
You never have to tolerate bitchy attitudes as I wrote in one of the earlier posts. But, that being written, you have to remember too, that if you're after lays--or whatever else for that matter--and that if you don't really care...about ANYTHING...then what's the point of not tolerating bitchy attitudes? This idea may not resonate with every guy or be appropriate in every situation, but, if you don't have to go out of your way at all, then you might as well tolerate anything that doesn't truly bother you. Sometimes it's okay to forgo principles, pride, dignity (to an extent). And just game.

What I mean by this is you don't have to delete a girl's number just because she pisses you off. Separate yourself from getting so attached in the first place and realize, in some ways, dealing with bitchy attitudes is just another part of the game. If you haven't seen it already, I suggest watching Def Jam's How to Be A Player starring Bill Bellamy. In that movie, Bill does pretty much whatever has to be done to score lays. If you get to the point where you don't give a shit about anything, you'll realize you can deal with ANYTHING. If a girl develops a bitchy attitude toward you, just remember, you already fucked her. You did it once. You think those feelings subsided because you pissed her off for a few days? Just smile, play the part, and don't let your pride get in the way. Realize that game's sometimes about manipulation. If she's really pissed at you, also too remember that you can always reopen (or attempt to reopen) her down the road. Maximize your roster of girls. Don't delete any one for any reason (unless she tells you to fuck off or something). She's mad, she gets a boyfriend, she cheats, she does any other bullshit you're not cool with. Eh. Might as well game.

Also, you don't have to blow your cool when a chick's being a bitch to you. If you really want to, go ahead and put the ho in her place. But it's pretty boss to just smile and walk away from bitchiness. It's actually pretty gentlemanly to be honest.

Tuesday, 2/25/14
Day twoed with the birthday girl I met last Sunday. I showed up an hour late because I unexpectedly had to air up my tires, and I had to go buy a gauge to get the goddamn pressure right. She hung around though, waiting the whole time. On that tip-wanting game. I finally showed up. We sat at the bar for close to two hours (the longest date I've had in a long time). She's pretty cool. A nerdy girl, which I like. And she's cute so it works. I made sure to escalate kino throughout the encounter and, as always, broke eye contact for nothing. I teased her too. A lot. Which always helps I think. I knew the pull wasn't gonna happen as she had to wake up early in the morning for school and the place we met up was far from my apartment. So I madeout with her at the end and went home to dwell on game.

Thursday, 2/27/14
Went out tonight with the sole intention of scoring one K-close. Why? Because it would be my 50th of the year and I had the goal of scoring 50 within the first two months. About 15 minutes into running game (excluding pregaming), I met this one girl who worked as a server at a strip club. I talked to her for about 10 minutes, saying whatever the fuck popped into my head. I just wanted to prep her up enough to K-close; that was my ONLY goal with chick. After a while, I knew I needed to seal the deal so I said I had to go find my friend inside (which was a lie) and busted the French goodbye: two kisses on the cheek, one on the lips ("real quick"). I actually just went inside to look for more sets, but then it dawned on me that I might as well go back and makeout with her. My wing and I met this nerdy physics Ph.D student who admitted he had trouble talking to girls so I wanted to show his ass that I was the real deal. I went back and talked to her for a few minutes. I noticed she had her tongue pierced. I told her again that we had to leave to go meet some friends, and, as I did, I told her I wanted to taste her tongue piercing. She showed a hint of rejection but I ignored it and leaned in, telling her, "For just one second." Once she starting making out, of course she kept going for more than just a second. I n-closed and peaced out.

After that my wing and I hit one bar where Kel (from Kenan & Kel) was hosting the DJ's booth. I thought it was pretty sick being able to see him since I've always been a fan of that show. The rest of the night, I didn't really game that much. Once I hit the 50, I became a lazy bastard. I felt like I had reached some goal and was thereafter taking a (much needed?) break. Probably never a good idea for game, but whatever, I've got the whole weekend ahead of me.

Lessons to learn from this:
Once I hit the 50th K-close, I realized I need to step up my game. K-closes are overrated. Number-closes are pretty much meaningless. Maybe to the homeboy we recruited (who I'd actually like to coach), shit like K-closes and n-closes mean something. But once you've been in the game a minute, you realize they're nothing. Might as well raise the bar and go for SNLs every night. I think, from here on, I'm going to focus on SNLs. My game has definitely reached a point where I feel like I'm approaching the beginning stages of advanced game. We'll see what's up.

Friday, 2/28/14
Night game. Always. Met up with wing. Was still feeling somewhat lazy after pulling the 50th K-close of the year. One of my wings opened a two set. He introduced me, and I figured I might as well go for a K-close at the very least. I n-closed, then French goodbyed her. My other wing met up with a girl who had a table at the venue. We crashed her spot, and I danced with one of her friends (this tiny Asian girl I wasn't really feeling). When she stopped dancing, I hopped off the table to recruit other girls. (You have an advantage if you have a table.) I spotted one girl on the patio who had a fucking killer ass. The rest of her was whatever, but I had to at least cop a handful of dhat ass. Haha. I pulled her to the table and danced with her on top of the booth. We grinded for a while, maybe 10 minutes. I knew I had to escalate in some manner. I turned her around and started making out with her (copping handfuls of ass as I did. Lol.) She seemed to really dig it. At the end of the night, I walked out of the venue with her. While we waited for my wing to find his chick, my girl's friend and some dude of her friend rolled up. I was still going to try to pull, but I knew as soon as the friends arrived chances were significantly decreased. We walked back to my wing's car. I told my girl I would give her a ride in the morning, but her weakass friend started the typical cockblocking: "I'm not letting her go home with anyone. You're going to have orgies!" Lol. I madeout with her one more time, grabbed some ass, got her number, and walked away from her. Most definitely going to be a future flake. Almost a lay. What a shame.

After she bounced, I got a text from the girl who hated on me a few days ago--the one whose ass I beat off on and whom I fucked two weeks ago. My wing dropped me off at her pad. She was being somewhat of a little bitch again, but that shit didn't phase me. All I cared about was busting the lay. I chilled with her and drank a bit. Then we fucked. Same old, same old.

Lessons to learn from this:
I'm still acting like a lazy bastard. But fuck K-closing. After a while, that shit starts to get old. It doesn't mean anything. From here on, I'm going to always go out with the intention of busting an SNL. I don't know how often I will be able to pull one, as I've never really gone out with that as the end goal. But this will be a way of experimenting/upping my game.

I'll have to work on handling CBs. This was the second, kind of third week in a row that I've gotten CBed. I think it may be a good idea to isolate as SOON as possible toward the end of the night. In this case at least, things maybe could have gone differently if I isolated chick as soon as we left the venue, before her friends joined her. She was standing around the whole time as we waited for my wing to find his girl, and I noticed she wasn't texting the whole time. So obviously her friends only rejoined her because they happened to see her standing outside. What I should have done, was walk out of the venue and immediately walked her back to my wing's car. I could have waited there for him to meet us. Will definitely have to sharpen the SNL skills and learn to manage CBs.

Stay tuned.

Saturday, March 1, 2014
It was raining hard tonight. I met up with my wing, and we scooped this guy I met a few weeks ago (the one who knew about PUA and RSD shit). We hit our regular district. First bar we crashed, a two set opened me. One girl asked me if I worked at a bar she goes to. I just played along with it and said yes. She wanted my wing to open her friend, which he did. The two set went to the bathroom after a few minutes of talking to us. When they came back, they smiled at us, then walked onto the patio. We noticed a little later that they got opened by two dudes (two lame-ass dudes). I saw my girl n-closing it with homeboy. After she bounced out of set, I reopened her, and she said she couldn't give me her number or kiss me goodbye. I got outgamed! Lol. The rest of the night was pretty uneventful. It was a shitty night in terms of weather and gaming, plus I still wasn't feeling in-state as much as I should have. The dude we were rolling with--he's a smart motherfucker, and he was opening sets like crazy--but he was drunk as fuck, and he's not a good-looking dude so his game was fucking up my shit. Overall night was weak. One number-close, zero K-closes, zero F-closes.

Lessons to learn from this:
Unfortunately, if you have dudes in your party who aren't up to par, you have to make a decision whether you should ditch them or not. It's fucked up to abandon your dudes, but if they're harming your game what's the point of rolling with them? Only side with wings who have decent game or who can bring something to the table.

Sunday, March 2, 2014
Weak-ass day game. I was sober and not feeling up to it. Opened no sets. Talked to one girl, part of a three set my two wings opened--she was visiting from out of town--and n-closed her for the hell of it. Most definitely going to be a flake.

After day game, my wing and I briefly ran night game. It was a pretty dead night since it was a Sunday. Opened no sets. I hit up one of my regulars at the end of the night, to try to get her to come over. She said she would, but then she stopped texting me back.

No game.

Lessons to learn from this:
I'm still not even close to being up to par in terms of day game. I've never really read much about day. I definitely need to check out some information about it if I want to improve. That's one of the things I'm going to focus on this week: improving my day game skills. I find myself battling a lot of AA during the day, and, not only that, but I've noticed that, when I'm sober (which is always during the day since I have to drive), my motivation for talking to girls is low. In the night time, I just wanna get laid and showoff my game. But during the daytime, I'm a little bitch and am just not very interested in talking to women. I need to buff up my drive for sure. I will learn about day this week and update as soon as possible.