Hey guys,

I've been having good results with my openers and my hooks. I've gotten girls numbers and i can tell they like me. When I text them, they text me right away and we start this great interaction.

however, from there It goes nowhere, because i'm either too nice or too cocky. My entire life, I have been too nice (agreeing with everything she says, finding commonalities, etc...) but after reading mystery method... I have been trying to not do that... problem is... the line is so fine that i have a tendency to cross it I guess. I didn't think I did, but it is obvious from the sudden "silent SPAM" I get.

What's the best way to create comfort without agreeing with everything that she says (let's say you actually agree with her for real)?
What's the best way to calibrate yourself?

Thanks

Max

A good technique in building comfort is to get them talking about themselves, which should be pretty easy. Guide the conversation to have her express feelings (people try to protect their feelings). If you can get her to do that, you've started building comfort.

Edit: Also pay attention to body language cues. Some girls are naturally chatty and comfortable talking about anything.

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Honestly, besides the seducing tone and backhanded compliments, try and talk to her like you would a male friend. Not with fart jokes and shit, but don't attack or try to appease her.

If she says something you agree with, agree with it (just don't go overboard). Maybe even play devil's advocate and ask her some questions you already know the answers to.

If she says something stupid or something you don't agree with, call her on it. Just don't be competitive or mean about it.

Example:

Her: I think my hair is too short.
Me: Your hair IS too short. But you know what they say about hair...
Her: That it grows back?
Me: You have hair growing on your back? You may want to get that checked out. I know a good doctor...

Etc.

Yeah, it's stupid and corny, but so is most human interaction.

The point is you aren't a robot, you're a person. You have thoughts and opinions. As long as you're playful and not a dick about them, she will respect you having your own mind.

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