Hey, guys.

Short version is, I got friendzoned, tried to get out by sexually escalating, the girl was unresponsive or plain simply said she did not like it, I decided I'd rather keep her as a friend than lose her at all so I stoped.

Now, during the last few days I noticed quite a few threads about the diference between PUA and LTR, and one thing I learned is that I have been doing it wrong. I want an LTR with this girl and the way I was gaming was not going to take me anywhere, especially considering the fact that she has been hurt before (more than once) and has some serious trust issues.

Also, I have noticed this girl is starting to come to me much more often, is freaquently around me, calls me often just to talk, texts or facebook chats daily, etc. And, more important than that, she is more responsive (in a positive way) to my sexual escalations. She has flaked on me before, but now, although she has flaked recently, she has given hints that she wants to hang out, although the signs are kinda mixed. As I said, she has been hurt before and my gaming act probably did not won me any points. Is it possible that she is intersted (at least a little bit) but is somehow still testing me to check if I am reliable and dependable?

Is there any chance I am moving in the right direction? And if so, how can I progress it, keeping in mind that I'm in it for the long run and not just a casual thing.

Drop the "knight in shining armor" fantasy and move on.

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In my opinion. 1st, drop the good guy act. 2nd, Don't make yourself to available for this woman. If she is really interested to you, try the cat-string theory of mystery. Women are experienced in manipulative moves to keep a guy interested and at the same time keep them in the friend-zone. If you keep doing what you are doing right now, you are not going anywhere. You are just an option to her.

text, "I'm not your therapist. When are you taking me out again?"