Hey guys, so I caught up with an old friend of mine. She informed me she had slept with a buddy of mine from HS and said that he became clingy as hell afterwards and she actually asked about why a guy would get needy after having sex once.

It just caught me off guard, because honestly throughout high school he bragged about getting laid every weekend with different girls. I didn't believe him at the time but he was always talking to a different girl every week. Despite this, I always thought he was gay because he constantly obsessed over his body, and frankly all he talked about was himself and his body, I had a first hand encounter with this as I had let him stay with me for a year due to complications in his family.

So my question really is, can an AFC be an alpha at the same time? It sounds illogical, yes, or is it more persistence that would get him there? And do many gay men hide their sexuality through consistent banging of girls? Covering their tracks type thing. Just thought I'd ask this.

Note - I am not homophobic in anyway, one of my closest friends is gay - He actually thinks this kid is gay too. More power to yah.

Of course an AFC can be an Alpha. But he is the Alpha of a bunch of AFC's.

Do gay men have sex with women to hide being gay? Some do.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com

This is a HUGE topic on my mind lately and I believe that PUA material has helped me to understand it.

Here's the quick and dirty:

Dudes have to be strong to compete but (imo) dont really want to have to be strong all the time. therefore they compete to find/win a female. They create a safe environment in which they can feel safe from predators (and other dudes) and enjoy the non-competitive sex they've fought for.

Chicks want a strong dude.. so (pua 101) they shit test. When they find a dude who is strong enough for them they allow themselves to be "caught". They then settle and nest and enjoy the feeling of being secure (no more game).

Now the problem: Because dudes dont want to have to be strong all the time, and have carved out a safe environement in which they dont have to be, they soften up towards their woman. the problem being that the shit-tests never really stop.

SOOO... whereas the dude thinks he's giving to the woman what she wants (by being soft) he's actually SPAM his power. This leads to suckage on an epic (yet all too common) level.

Research "betaisation" and read this article: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... ified.html

_________________
Total f*ckin' noob

This is a HUGE topic on my mind lately and I believe that PUA material has helped me to understand it.

Here's the quick and dirty:

Dudes have to be strong to compete but (imo) dont really want to have to be strong all the time. therefore they compete to find/win a female. They create a safe environment in which they can feel safe from predators (and other dudes) and enjoy the non-competitive sex they've fought for.

Chicks want a strong dude.. so (pua 101) they shit test. When they find a dude who is strong enough for them they allow themselves to be "caught". They then settle and nest and enjoy the feeling of being secure (no more game).

Now the problem: Because dudes dont want to have to be strong all the time, and have carved out a safe environement in which they dont have to be, they soften up towards their woman. the problem being that the shit-tests never really stop.

SOOO... whereas the dude thinks he's giving to the woman what she wants (by being soft) he's actually SPAM his power. This leads to suckage on an epic (yet all too common) level.

Research "betaisation" and read this article: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... ified.html

_________________
Total f*ckin' noob