The guy above me gave exceptional advice I do disagree about the body language but that's because I know what the body language means to push things along... I don't try to interpret it I simply react to it.
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I understand we're both single, I just didn't expect her to hook up with someone so soon!
This line really bothered me... really really really really bothered me.
Why can't she fuck a guy the next night? And the night after that? And the night after that? What's wrong with that? She's single, she's got no reason not to fuck a different guy if she wants to. There is nothing wrong with a woman having sex with tons of men... sex isn't a big fucking deal man... it's just sex. If a girl fucks 10 or 1000 I don't care, it's none of my business (short of stds of course
, it's up to you to check the quality of the field before stepping on it).
Another thing: Please realize women want sex way fucking more then men... hell you said it yourself... she wanted the sex more than you did. Stop working from the frame that if a woman wants sex from multiple people it's weird/wrong... she will always want sex from multiple people just like you will always want to fuck multiple women (regardless of whether you do or don't act).
As far as if you want more make a damn move just like what everyone is saying... I can tell you all about her body language but just run a basic escalation compliance and you'll be fine... Seriously... Everytime you greet her greet her with a smile, hug (pull her close, pelvis to pelvis) longer, don't treat her like a friend dude, you don't have to treat her like gf but you do need to treat her like more then a friend... if she's not up for it cool... just make it clear.
One thing, this is your fault dude... you let some guy get handsy all over her... she was drunk... why would you make any assumptions as to you getting her at all? You think you owned her because you fucked her the night before? She probably thought you were being kind of a dick and acting weird/distant... afterall she went to you and gave you a hug and a kiss... how do you reward her? You let some drunk ass try and fuck her (likely did) all night long. Why weren't you there to protect? All you had to do is say "hey are you ok? let's grab a drink." That's it she follows you away from him and bam... escalate... go to dorm... fuck... If she says she's good and she'll stay, so what you got your answer... you already fucked her so who cares? Move on spread the seed.
As far as moving your current situation along... it's simple... you know how you had her alone on her bed in her room? YEAH THAT LET'S FUCK. Is it always? Na but the fact is you're being awkward and acting like a friend that's not what she wants.... act how you feel(like she is sexy and you want to fuck her and have to struggle to keep your hands off her)... This will make her wet... just be true to it... "Every time I see you I can't stop thinking of how sexy you are and how hard I want to see you cum." (I know you're barely not a virgin but this doesn't mean you can't look up how to get better at fingering and eating her out).
If you just want to say "Hey I like you, you're an intriguing woman... I'd love to keep hanging out and see where this goes." You're not long term, you're not making things formal, you're simply saying lets keep it casual and see what happens...
Peace and Love,
Vic
Really appreciate the words of encouragement. I owe you brother. Thanks for putting in the time to give me perspective.
Could you clarify about the first bit (body language part)? So I shouldn't be worried right - that's the consensus right? I will stop acting like a friendzoned AFC that I am right now. I've seen her naked - there's no reason I should be acting like this. This encouragement is giving me the mental help I need as well so thank you all for that.
CHAT