Just had this happen. About 10 months ago, my girlfriend broke up with me for a "friend" of mine. Then, for one brief week we hooked back up when they broke up, and then, she ran off with another friend of mine. When I started dating her, she was about 30 pounds overweight, after a horrendous summer when my "friend" she put on about 20 more pounds. She had lost a lot of weight a year prior, but, was slowly regaining it. Didn't bother me, I was fat as fuck, and she has the cutest face and a very pleasant demeanor.

Well, as my last post said, I've dropped the weight, shaved the head, redid my entire look, and took on a new hobby more fitness oriented. Right now, I'm dating casually a Crossfit chick, who still manages to fill out a C-Cup which is so damn rare for crossfit chicks.

I was out and there was my ex with my other friend who she's been dating for 6 months, another 20 pounds heavier, him another 30 or so pounds thicker on.

I introduce them, we make slight small talk, we part ways. She texts me that night, after having unfriended me from Facebook, and complete silence for the last four months. "I didn't know you liked that type of girl."

It's been a day, I haven't responded.

We're all changing our lives, getting better, and meeting people who add more fulfillment to our lives than our previous relationships, whatever they may be have done. Perhaps it'll be good for some people to share that victory, or for people to realize who much you change, not just the company you meet, but, I've had other people who used to be in my life, who met me, and can't believe the new powerful presence.

So, How bout this for a discussion. How PUA changes people's perceptions of you for the better, from how you carry yourself, to the people you have around you?

Women often put on weight when I dump them. It's funny to see them even fatter with some fat dude.

It's pretty shit overall though because my new girls see them and go "OMG you were fucking HERRR???? Ewww." I'm then left red-faced saying "i know, god, she was much thinner when I first started seeing her. But I left her when she got too fat. So you'd better be careful you don't eat too many pies, eh? "

It's kind of a shit test anyway, especially once you get up to a certain level of women. I've had HB10 girlfriends talk a load of shit about 9's I had slept with who weren't even fat. A lot of the shit-talking is rooted in jealousy.