I wear shiny things near my cock. It's a sexual display that is broadcasted rather than narrowcasted. Every time I pass by a shop, this married girl would call me when her husband is not around and say things like, "My pussy is wet right now. I'll make your eyes stretch out towards the sun (this is the literary translation of the vernacular female-speake she uses) while I'm riding your cock."

The only reason why I'm not banging her is because I see the poor guy taking care of their baby once and so often.

Seduction is not always targeted. Some women get very horny just seeing a guy walk or hear him talk.

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A true pickup artist fucks any woman he desires. If the girl is cool with it, SHE is the one who is doing the cheating, not the PUA. Who took those wedding vows? Not me. I didn't vow jack-shit. I make her cum, I make her feel wanted, she feels sexy again. Even if the dude finds out, I've either given him a free pass to settle the score and fuck another hot chick for the first time in YEARS, or I just exposed weaknesses in his wife to him and saved him heartache further down the line. And he can learn from the AFC mistakes which led to her flirting with me and eventually fucking me.

A key concept of modern game is to be ego-less without need for validation. So I don't care who respects me and who doesn't. And i dont judge women for their lifestyle or choices either. This is the attitude that gets me laid. Guys wrongly label women as either good girls or sluts, but it's all wrong. You could have one chick who has a string of 1-2 year relationships then goes on holiday and fucks 20 guys. Then she might work in a bar over there for a while picking up hot local guys and more guys on vacation. She might even be a groupie and have an orgy with an entire rock band who are touring. Then she might decide she's getting too old for it all and move back to get a job in the city and settle down with a stable guy and have 2 kids and never cheat on him, because she got it all out of her system when was younger. She is not a bad person. She is just doing what we would do in the same situation. Don't judge women who cheat and don't judge me for pursuing them. Every situation is different. Some women never cheat. Some women cheat once and never do it again. Some women keep on cheating until they realise it has ruined several good relationships so they stop doing it. Some women just never stop cheating until they get too old to fuck. Don't be so black and white.

Also don't get into pickup if you can't handle fucking multiple women. This isn't a love forum. It's pickup. It's sex.

Good points all round, this has been an interesting thread. One thing I can't agree on though, is that PU is just for getting laid. There are roughly two types of guy on here, those looking to raise their game and bang the hottest women on the planet (awesome), and those looking to raise their game and start a relationship with one of the hottest women in the planet (awesome).

The first guy might settle down in the process... great, why not. And the second guy might get laid a lot in the process of finding a long term gal... GREAT!

As for being the 3rd party in a girl cheating on her boyf, it seems that the choice to be this guy, or not, is really about wether you can handle it or not. I'm not judging those that can or those that can't, but for my part, I've done it, and I felt like shit, and by that measure I've decided to never do it again.

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What you've described is Pick Up Artists and guys looking for relationships. There's a huge difference between the two and they're not the same schools.

No! If is not you it will be someone else, just make sure you know how to deal with them and safety first.

A lot of married women are on the way out, miserable and roomates, the divorce is a matter of time.

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I don't agree, a PUA can find a relationship along the way. In fact, the best relationships I've had come during a string of many pick ups. The vibe you have, when picking up many chicks, attracts the best you're capable of getting imo. Girls can sense it.

When I'm doing a lot of PU snd my game is tight and I'm dating several girls and having sex with them, it's at this time that I get the most offers to be in a relationship. Hence PU for me = relationships (if I choose to).

PU and finding a relationship, from my own personal experience, are not mutually exclusive. If you don't feel PU can lead to finding a great girl to stay with, please explain why, I'm open to other perspectives... (I just hope this isn't a question of semantics, otherwise we're just wasting time with the gear in neutral).

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I'm saying there's differences between guys who are PUAs and guys who are looking for relationships. I'm not saying you can't have a girlfriend or can't find one when you're a PUA, that would be a ridiculous statement.

Generally PU is about hooking up with women, not necessarily finding a woman to be your girlfriend. PU at it's core, originally at least, was all about hooking up with as many women as soon as possible and mostly by being fake in some shape or form(Rather, being manipulative of their emotions). Looking for a relationship you want to avoid this, be real and exclusive.

I'm sincere with my game though, and once I start to get more serious with one girl I'm not in a position where I need to tell her that I told her a bunch of lies / lines. It's a fine line for sure, but I manage it.

For me it's a lifestyle, it's just who I am now, so there doesn't come a point where I treat her any differently (excluding my monogamy of course).

By this I mean that I still bust her on any bs I hear, and remain playful / teasing. I love women, and when in relationships I think it's good to remain just like the guy who attracted her in the first place. A big mistake guys make (and god knows I've made many times) is to change once they're in a relationship. You've probably seen it 1000 times, where a guy loses his edge once he commits to a girl.

Therefore I believe becoming a player can get a guy many lays, and also a girlfriend. However becoming a "mr relationship" type of guy will absolutely not get a him many lays whilst he seeks mrs right, and mrs right probably won't be that great a girl either, as his options are limited.

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I think you pretty much nailed it here. The best LTRs are in a constant flux of attraction seduction and re-attraction. This may just be the prime point wherein the proverbial "Mr. Right" is distinguished from the AFCs. Complacency is relationship death.