So yeah...

I was on a date with the chick yesterday, it went good. We kissed a lot and made out, but still not had sex.

So for the next time I'll have to take her home, i think she will agree. I think we have enough comfort.

But the thing is she went to another city for a job interview and to see some friends and she will be back after 10 days.

I told her to call me when she is back, but I don't know if she is going to do it. Are 10 days enough to loose attraction to someone ?

I'm still gaming other girls but just not kissing. I'm not like I was in the past to date few chicks at the same time.

So what do you think ???

I know you don't have a crystal ball but....

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A lot can happen in 10 days... so try to keep the text/phone game going. Do not let the 10 days pass without contact, hoping she will call you when she's back. All the attraction and comfort you built up during the date is slowly vanishing away while you don't interact with her...

well yes but if keep contacting her, i look like i show too much interest in her. Which is opposite of the frame that i'm putting of "not being into her" ,which in its turn is kind of keeping the attraction going on.

So i'm kind of caught between the hammer and the anvil.

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The trick is to get her contacting you as well, not like a "one way street". If she's half-way into you she will be just as interested in keeping in touch. And by now, she must have figured out anyway that you are into her, so no amount of pretending you are not will work...

OK so then... lay the cards down and contact her, "praying" that she will return back ?

She is cool, we spent good time but I'm obsessed of her. (failing in love is not a deal)

Actually is there a way for to be into her without looking stupid or too much interested.

And yea... any suggestions on what is best to text or call her.

Should I pay some C&F with her (she like those - she told me) or just ask her: "hey whats up how is it going? "


...Either way when she comes back I'll see her in our social circle for sure, but i'll have to build attraction again.

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C&F sounds just fine, the whole point is to "help" her remember you while she's away. You don't need to overdo it, spend the whole day texting her, just don't pull a disappearing act for the whole 10 days... You should appear "mildly interested", not obsessed with her...

She definitely remembers me. I think she is modestly attracted to me, but I want her to be MEGA attracted.

However doing this over the phone - thought business.

What do you about this: 2 days before she comes back to text her with something C&F (still have to figure it out)

But what about that we agreed SHE to call me when she came back ? Is texting prematurely her conveying i'm interested in her?

how do you think?

Or its a gamble (risk)

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