So...
as I described the case in my prev. posts. We were on 1st date and had some hard core kissing and ody touching.

Laughter, story telling, we ate together in a restaurant. Spent about 4 hours together. And I know here from a little ago, so maybe we had already spent about 7-10 hours around each other. (according to the 7 hours rule, that you have to spent about 7 hours together to have enough comfort).

However we still haven't got sex. The next step will be to transition her to home "for a something quick to do". However I'm not quite sure if its already the right time.

If i rush it she will get self conscious, if I delay I'll loose the moment and remain in too much in comfort. (which I'm not gonna remain at).

So anyway. What signals do you look for that she is ready (comfortable enough) to go home with you ?

Is that she lets me hand touch and kiss her belly and tits enough signal that she is ready ?

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Always isolate. The right time is ALL the time.

"I need to get my credit card (put any excuse here) at the apartment for a sec. Come (tag her hand along)".

"Can you cook meatloaf (put any recipe here)?" (Put any plausible excuse here for instance.. 'My boss' birthday is coming up and I want to give him something special and unique since he can afford to buy almost anything.')

"My cat (put any pet here) won't eat. Can you help me see what's wrong with her before I take her out to the vet?"

"Let's look at my new fighting fish that just came in from Thailand."

"I'm busy with the laundry. It would be cool if you can help."

Then do your k-close and make outs in your apartment.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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So I can do it even if i rush it or even if i miss the moment.

Nice tips for under the pretext.

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This is my first post on here I've been a lurker for about 2 years, but have been practicing PU, for about 1 1/2 now. But anyway about your situation.

When I am asking a girl to come home from a perticular place, like if we are out, I will just say, "let's get out of here" and start leading her, she is either gonna go with it or not. If you have put in the right amount of work before hand which it sounds like you have, then your good to go. If she hesitates then you need to put more time in comfort.

Now if you are trying to set up a new date and are trying to get her to come to your place, I suggest the "make dinner together and watch a movie". That is the golden one, I was using that before I ever got in to PU. If she is coming over for that then she is ready but you have to be the man and lead her there. You just have to know how to cook one meal and the movie you pick doesn't even matter, you should be making out on the couch 5 minutes in to the movie. Half the time I escalate enough while we are making dinner that the movie never makes it outta the case.

Asking a girl to come over to watch a movie is like like code for "come over to hook up" they even know it for the most part. I was just talking to these 2 girls at the bar last night and they even brought it up.

Remember though you need to lead her from meet to the bedroom all the way, that's your job as a man, you shouldn't be waiting for her to escalate anything.

@ troublesome. Yes it sounds reasonable.
Actually I know the process. I've been taking girls before in my home.

Maybe I just need to remind myself a little how was it going.

Btw any suggestions for a good meal to cook.

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Google fettucini Alfredo to die for (it won't let me post the URL)
This one is my go to, I'm a pretty good cook, but this one is easy not too involved and tastes great. I use the soft fresh noodles you find in the refrigerated section over the hard ones and I usually use just all parmesean cheese but the kind you get in the wedge and then grate it. There is so much oppertunity for kino while cooking together it's great. Plus this little meal makes it seem like you know what your doing in the kitchen, ha ha.

Ok i'll try that one - thanks

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