Hi guys!

Some weeks ago I went for some beers with friends and met a girl friend of theirs.

I chose her as a target to practice the game and I started showing complete disinterest for her.

After some minutes he asked my name and I negged her saying that I a had already told her and that is polite to remember the name of the people you meet. She tried to throw it back to me asking me if I remembered her name. And I did remember. It was nice to see her face at that moment...LOL. So I said that she had lost me and I tested some kino and talked to her about a lot of things. As a newbie, I decided to not make more moves that day because I was afraid of throw the chance away. I knew that I would meet her again in some weeks.

When I arrived home I saw that she had added me on facebook but after that day we didn't interact a lot. Just some likes and comments on posts.

I'm going to meet her again next weekend at a birthday party and now I don't know from where I should start the game again.

Actually, I have a lot of doubts:

Should I start from the mid-game or from the beggining?

Did I made it good pausing the game to continue later with more knowledge?

Should I start to talk to her right know on facebook to warm things up until the weekend or should I wait to talk face to face?

Do you have any tips on how could I play the game? Going indirect or direct?

I appreciate any help!

Thanks in advance!

Cheers

Good job. Restraint is sometimes the toughest thing when you are making good progress.

Her adding you on FB is a great sign because, presumably, your nonchalance intrigued her enough to poke at you (with Facebook) to basically say, "hey you met me."

Do you guys have any inside jokes or funny stories that you talked about? Anything you can bring up around her and make a connection? The thing about creating rapport (which you did) is making an intimate connection. That means you can reference something like soggy curly fries and she'll laugh/acknowledge etc. This gives you an edge and a head start to the night because you start from where you left off. And thats the natural progression.

Personally, I would message on FB at least asking if she's going to be at the party (if it isn't a strange question to ask) and when she says "Yeah, are you?" then you can say, "Yup, see you there =)" I added the smiley to give the appearance that I might be looking forward to it. You can use it or not, depends on what you think will resonate with her.

I would stay cool until you get her chasing a bit and then look to isolate and see where it goes. If shes cool with the isolation, then do the hand holding and all that stuff. You'll know what to do after that.

Good luck!

Thanks for your help RiRi!

After I meet her again I'll post here the report!

Cheers

Start from where you finished last time and then keep escalation and trasitioning from one phase to the next.

I would try to catch her on that she forgot your name and now she had plenty time to remember it and see on facebook.

Maybe I'd say something like "lucky for you there is facebook so you can recall my name, either way i had to write and spell it very slowly for you as for an retorted/slow/dorky kid".

It still maintains the C&F style and the you must keep going. Go for kino escalation, then kiss, etc. (not in the 1st moment after you say this of course but 1 by 1 during the date). And keep balancing with the previous stuff that you know she enjoys. C&F and whatever made her feel attraction to you.

I would avoid fb communication, since its 1st: very slow 2nd: big chance for her (or you) to misinterpret things that are said. And then you need to explain and justify yourself which is DLV. (you don't want it)

Going indirect vs direct: For this one i'm not quite sure, but I think if you are blunt and honest and yet playful (not boring and honest - there is difference) you will manage to do fine.

Good luck. Post results later on.

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