There's plenty more where she came from, so I say be the best PUA you can be and focus on experiences that don't create a loser out of one unfortunate person.

Sure, if she is gonna cheat with you, she'll cheat with others. But would you loot a store for a TV you have your eye on, just because if you don't someone else will?

There's plenty more where she came from, so I say be the best PUA you can be and focus on experiences that don't create a loser out of one unfortunate person.

Sure, if she is gonna cheat with you, she'll cheat with others. But would you loot a store for a TV you have your eye on, just because if you don't someone else will?

I agree with Cool_Hand 100%

I simply add that my attraction to PUA has to do with interacting with different random women during the day and creating an unexpected sexual attraction in them. Women like that kind of stuff. Being surprised during a probably fairly humdrum day. And if we have sex some time later even better. Win win..

But to take that to the level where I create an (unfairly) powerful emotion in her that would cause bad drama (and possibly destruction) in her life doesn't leave the woman "better than I found her" imo.

awesome advice guys i thought about this a lot and i suppose its like just because I know i can get drugs doesnt mean i have to take them.....

shes a hotty and the flirting is good for my confidence and probably hers....why fix it if its not broken

1) Monkey branch theory. Women are always looking for an upgrade on their current boyfriend. Now before you panic, she will stay with her current dude unless the new guy is better in most departments. So she will cling to the current branch until she finds a new branch which is solid enough to swing towards. If she tries the new branch and it's not as solid as she thought, she will swing back to the old one. Solution: Take a note out of a girl's book and monkey branch yourself. No matter how hot your GF is, there is a hotter cooler girl ready to fuck you. This attitude also keeps your girl's interest level high, because she knows you could trade up at any time, so she works harder to keep you, she doesn't get fat, she drops fat cash on beauty SPAM, sucks your cock constantly, makes nice food for you etc.

2) Single girls are often single for a reason. The hottest girls are often taken.

3) Girls in high demand often say they have a boyfriend as a shit-test. If you give up at the first hurdle, you could be missing out on hot single pussy.

4) With every girl with a boyfriend I fuck, I learn all the wide-ranging reasons why their boyfriends suck and fail at relationships and how to avoid those mistakes myself.

5) I'm slightly ashamed to admit that I love showing up to a club and being "that guy" girls whisper and gossip about. Ashamed because i don't like getting attached to my ego, i certainly don't show it, which is the main thing. Once you get a reputation as a good fuck who can make a girl cum hard and fuck all night, you get passed around social circles like a piece of meat. The rumours help me tap into more untapped pussy because of my reputation for being discreet and respectful of relationships.

Here's what I wrote on the same topic in another thread. The short answer is, if YOU have a problem with it and YOUR conscience would make you feel guilty, don't do it. If the other dude is a friend of yours or a family member, don't do it.

But,... if you don't give a fuck about the other dude and your conscience is clear, go right ahead and here's why:
So to sum up, if you wanna be a muthafukkin' pimp playa, then tap it. If you're looking for a monogamous relationship or a girlfriend, stay away and find a single girl.

All this "leave her better than you found her" bollocks is being quoted out of context and doesn't apply to this situation.

You bet I leave them better than I found them! I leave them quivering on the bed with a big wet patch under their pussy, covered in my thick white jizz. They wouldn't choose to put themselves in that position if their boyfriends knew how to fuck them properly.

To the OP, if you want to just fuck this girl, you need to isolate her and get physical with her very gradually. Start touching her more, look into her eyes when she's speaking. Isolate her, get her into situations where the logistics make intimacy possible, eg. filing room, bar/club, coffee shop near your place etc.

BUT, if she is becoming your one-itis and you're becoming obsessed with her, DO NOT game her. If she finds you attractive and wants to cheat on her husband, this will only work if your agenda is casual, no strings attached sex. If you want more than that, back away. Do not expect any kind of relationship with her while she is married. You'd be nothing more than a booty call to her. And if you can't make her cum, she won't come back for more.

If your conscience is telling you "no" and you have any doubts, don't do it. Your attitude needs to be "100% don't give a fuck". If it's not, don't do it.

You've been here before Hunter?