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Hahahaha.... Funny enough that's exactly what brought her to my house in the first place. Her basketball star ex-boyfriend dumped her 7 months ago and she is still not over him so she decided to come to the states to "clear her head". Oh how true you were PEBBLE and didn't even know it. Lol

:p

Well, same thing can be said about most girls really..Thats why I said it..

exception... maybe not Nicole Sherzinger.

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The 2x books that helped me the most were nothing to do with pickup.

"Radical Honesty" by Brad Blanton and
"Five Rings" by Musashi

Both of these teach you to be a self-fulfilled masculine man who gets shit done. Once you stop caring so much about each lay, you start getting laid more often. Funny the way it works...

Also recommend "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday.

In terms of what will help you right now; just be more physical, more eye contact, escalate, stop pussying out of escalating. Go out partying with her, kiss her. You should be pushing boundaries of social etiquette. Don't take "No" for an answer (Rape Game 101 lol). Obviously you can tell the difference between token resistance and real resistance!

Go out on some dates & come home & tell her about them. That should do the trick. Better yet if you smell of sex when you get home.

Treat her like a bratty little sister in the meantime.

It wouldn't hurt to make another batch of cookies and say "I can't help making these I love them so much, I do it out of love I can't get enough of them."

Ok so a quick update....I managed to regain a bit of rapport two days ago when we talked for an hour about her life in the last year and some astrology bullshit. Granted she was on her bed and I stood in the doorway the whole time. Don't lambast me for that. I'm still a pussy but I'm working on that. Anyway she opened up and clearly felt more comfortable the next day.

So frequently a number of us in the house (there are at least 4) will eventually gather in the tv room to watch whatever movie is on. Last night she was the only one in there and as I came in I sat in a chair adjacent to the couch she was sitting in and put my feet up on the ottoman. She very quickly proceeded to tell me to get my feet off the ottoman cuz I still had my shoes on and I just wiggled my feet and smiled at her and said something like "What? my shoes arent touching." And kept smiling. She followed up with some crap about putting your feet up on a table and again I just smiled at her and didn't budge. She paused, looked at me, and pretty much called me an asshole (in my language). I didn't have anything to say to that so I just continued watching the movie, but her she very soon started portraying more and more negative body language by increasingly leaning on the ouside arm rest of the couch and basically to the point where she was leaning so far away from me that all I saw was her butt and just a bit of her face. Then that awkward feeling came all over me again. I soon after took one shoe off massaged my foot (just got my cast off of my ankle from a recent break) and then went up to my room. I heard her leave the TV room soon after and go to her room. And now I feel like I'm back to square one.

At least before I went to bed I leaned into her room where she and another housemate were discussing something and I waved and put on this big 'ol smile and said good night. She didn't so much respond at all verbally outside making short eye contact and continued saying whatever she was saying to the other housemate. Though I could ALMOST see a faint smile and she did flip her hair. No idea if that was coincidental.

So guys, how bad am I? I can't even tell the difference between if I'm being an actual jerk or being a flirtatious jerk.

Is leaning into her a seduction technique lol ?

I don't know man, seems like you're flogging a dead horse. Just bring home some new hotties and perhaps she may get jealous one day.. she was giving you attitude, you didn't call her out on it, rewrading bad behaviour etc.


I would move on from this..

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Until you get more comfortable around hot women you're ultimately gonna fail.

Are you confident you can make this girl cum? Could you give her a screaming orgasm? If not, you need to practise sex and get better at it. You need to accept that sex is normal and all women want a stiff dick inside them.

Fear of getting physically close to a hot woman is caused by underlying insecurity about sexual performance. Get good at sex and your fear will disappear.

Heh.... I know from reading my posts you would think I'm such a fucking AFC that it should be embarrasing, but the truth is I've slept with over 30 women! I know how to make any girl squirt and despite the fact that I have one serious case of premature ejaculation I've learned how to control it through kegel exercises. Yes I have some insecurities, but this is something even I didn't expect to be so goddamn AFC about. Granted all my girls were 7's and 8's. Never one like this. I've been trying so damn hard to not get forced into a female role with her because I know I have a pretty good tendency of doing that. This is like the greatest mental battle I've ever had to endure with myself.

Bear in mind it's her attitude which is making you 2nd guess yourself, not her looks. There's no difference between 8s and 10s, at least, there shouldn't be, in your head.

Your 7s and 8s were easier lays. Your biggest enemy here is you, the mind games you're playing with yourself. You're so afraid of her rejecting you that you're avoiding making a move. You've waited too long. What you should've done is made a move the day she moved in. It's the same principle as kino'ing a girl early in the interaction, so she's not shocked when you touch her again later in the conversation. You waited so long to make a move that she was shocked when you finally did. You're probably fuckednow, so you might as well make a move. If she's already gone cold, you might as well have one last crack at escalating, even if only to put the nails in the coffin and kill any chance with her so you can move on. The key is to remove the comfort of your family home and reframe yourself in a different venue. At home, she is managing her reputation whereas in the clurb she will be a different person and so should you be.