hi guys

I'm dealing with an hb10, and i wasn't really textgaming her, but after I ask her something, she doesn't reply at all. I know for sure she's not busy with anything, she's not working or something like that but still she didn't reply because ( and i'm also sure of this, because she's an expert with man) she didn't want to: the reply would put her in a complicated situation.

what should I do? I do not chase girls, if a girl doesn't reply I don't send another text, and if I have to deal with her in person my attitude towards her changes a bit: I ignore her (as a form of punishment) as she ignored my text.

my question is: should I keep this "strategy" or should I send a text with written "why didn't you reply?" to put pressure on her and to watch her clutching at straws?(btw I could also ask the question in person, which I'd prefer)

thanks for your help

Lorenzo

Don't ask why she didn't reply, that's never a good option. If she doesn't respond in a couple days, try to text one last time. If she doesn't respond to that, move on.

The only reason that she'd be playing games with you is if she's already pretty interested in you. Do you think that's the case?

thanks Snarg

I won't text or say anything then, I'm not interested in her since we've already been together and now we ended up in Friend zone because we share some friends. so I really don't have interest/need in texting her again. if she wants, she knows my number

I'll just ignore her and act cold

but if I undestood what you meant, this act of no reply is like a shit test?

It's not a shit test. It generally means that she's either playing mind games (basically the female version of pick-up) if she's interested in you, or that she's simply disinterested to begin with. But those games only come when there is already some clear interest and it'll appear more like mixed signals (for example, flirting heavily when you see her in person but being distant via texting), so if that's not the case, I'm going to go with disinterested.