I went out on a date with a girl yesterday who I met at a bar the night before. That night, she didn't give much eye contact, and the next day it was the same. I feel like I did a good job of escalating, and encouraging her openness, and even called her out on being shy which pushed her to open up more.

I was super comfortable in myself, and not acting reactively. We went on a walk, sat in a nice nature spot, but she had her body slightly turned, and made it hard for me to go for the kiss. I couldn't triangulate eye gaze or move in gracefully, so I asked, and she said she didn't kiss on the first date. Really?!! Anyways I kissed her on the cheek, kind of lame, but what are some techniques to get shy girls to open up more and faster?

When I'm out, I'm almost tempted to just walk away from these girls who are being boring and closed off, and find people who are open and willing to have fun. Should I? I'd like to help warm people up, but how?

Maybe she just thinks your ugly?

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All girls kiss on the first date if they're into the guy. She just wasn't that into you.

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