This girl is so fucking difficult. She's definitely a 10, and we've become really close. (definitely wouldnt mind dating this girl. When Im with her, girls look at me, guys want to be me. Shes gorgeous but is also really smart, and thats why we mesh together well. (She doesn't even take classes at her highschool, she dual enrolls) and Im currently applied to 6/8 ivy league schools. We study Organic Chemistry, then go to parties and get wasted.

She likes sex, but hates relationships and has HUGE kino issues. Its been 2 months and she wouldnt even hug me. Meanwhile, I finally got through to her, and Ive realized that she wants physical affection, she just isnt used to it. The trick to it was her cat believe it or not...

She hates cuddling/hugging/touching. But she is in love with her cat and loves to cuddle with it. So i decided to act like her cat lol. I would push her away, (she spent the night the other night AGAIN) but all we did was get slightly drunk and watch movies in my bed) and ignore her and be like "dont touch me" and SURE ENOUGH she is literally on top of me lol. It was hilarious. here's this girl who wont even hug and the second im like "get away from me" she is following me around my room as I playfully push her away.
Psychologically, its a power game. I tried so hard to get through LMR, (I FINALLY got her to make out with me, even when I was friend zoned??) and got inside her shirt. Basically cuddled almost naked all night.I would literally tease her with my... but every time I started to take off her pants she would flail and push me away. In the morning she told me she was VERY sensitive and lol i believe it. She kept saying it was an exercise in self control or something.

How do I get this girl to be mine? It seems like she wants the power, so Ive started to be like "I dont want to have sex with you.... blah blah blah. I just like teasing you. She wants the power back, so she asks me all the time like on the phone- "wanna cuddle" and im like "no ew." The second I say yes, shes back in control. But the first time I had her in my bed, not the last time that I just explained, I kissed her back and such while giving a back rub, and I basically begged for sex and went up in flames. So I made crazy strides. (I basically was dry humping her and shit. Got her shirt off (D's, size double zero, blonde) and yeah. How do i keep it going? Any tips? Should I try a hard freeze out this week?

I think you're doing fine and your calibration is good. Sustain what's working fer yah.

Some girls are easy to fuck; others take time. That's just the way it is.

If you want new ideas, look for Heywood Jablowme's LMR thread at the PUA Lounge.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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What you are doing is working, why would you want to change it?

You just need to push a little further each time.

Her: "want to cuddle again?"

You: "no ew." "But my shoulder does hurt, you could rub that out for me"

We pursue that which retreats from us.

Like the cat being teased with a string. It won't chase a dormant string. You have to dangle it.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.