I know judging from the title that the natural response is "she's not interested" but that's not the case.

I got with this girls friend 3 weeks ago. At the weekend there was a party where she told me she liked me. Ive liked her for awhile but always kept it secret due to personal reasons but I just grabbed her, kissed her and told her she was coming for a drink with me later.

Then she got ill. Tonsilitus, really annoying but in the (lengthy) text she sent me apologising she said she definitely wanted to rearrange. I did but then forgot it was my friends birthday so had to rearrange again. Ended up being Valentines Day. Date went insanely well. F-Closed and spent half the day with her the next day. She was also very "we should definitely do this again" and all that.

Then I went out on a bender with the bois that night and had work the next day so didn't feel like communicating with her till I was on top form. Was going to send her a msg today to plan the next meetup (was gonna keep it simple, just dinner round hers, sexy cheese platter and some nice wine then fuck the shit out of her) but she just sent me a text saying.

Her: "I've contracted Tonsilitus again, I think you are to blame mister. Unless you have it now...if you do please forgive me x"

Whilst the texts isn't a negative one or a "yeh don't even bother arranging a second date" sort of thing its just frustrating as hell as now I don't know how to play it. Am I aloud to be sensitive/compassionate/caring after a first date f-close or do I keep my cheeky lad frame or bait her/mysterious her? aka "Shame I had so much fun stuff planned for you. It was going to be magical...;P"

Any advice appreciated

Take it easy. Being too nice would be needy at this stage. Just be casual with something like "No worries, let me know when you're feeling better x"

The problem with your cheeky text is it comes across as needy. You've only fucked her once and you're already thinking about her constantly and making "magical plans" for her. Let her chase you a bit.

Yeah, you need to slow-play this if she's sick.

If you believe she's legitimately ill, then there's not much you can do. Send her a text now and again and tell her you hope she's feeling better, or send her a good joke or animated gif or something.

I wouldn't jump on asking for a second date until you know she's healthy and you have some clear indicators you'll get a yes.

Sounds good man. I'll add tad of niceness at the beginning as I've been nice to her since I met her. aka just something like "awh poor Emily. Not me, i'm on top form. Let me know when you're feeling better x"

I agree about the thinking thing but its the way my brain works. I have a very overactive brain where I can think about multiple different things at the same time whilst processing it all in an odd way. Its always been like this. She's not even the only girl I'm seeing. I've already sorted out another girl for the party and a girl I fucked a couple weeks ago has invited me over to France to stay at her families Chalet and go skiing with her (she's a girl of the world)

Any tips on how to calm my brain down when it comes to women?

"Damn that sucks! Stop making out with everyone! Hit me up when you feel better "

Done.

There's never an appropriate situation for a man to say "aww".
Stop that shit right away!