| Hey guys,
This is CoolHand from England. I'm visiting California right now, next stop LA.
I'm pretty experienced in pickup, usually dating HB-8's and upward. When I was younger this was due to my looks, now I'm 34 yrs old it's due to my game. I guess I've f-closed around 55/60 girls in my time.
I have a good job, making video games and movies, that seems to go down well with the girls. I used to animate, but now I'm moving into Directing (helps with actresses). I'm at acting school in Hollywood, and there are many HB-10's there (please don't ask for names as I don't want to hurt anyone's career). I'm doing this to be a better Director, and if I meet a great girl so be it.
My sticking point is that while I lived in Europe, I was inundated with hot available women and was having the best sex of my life. Germany, where I lived and worked, has 1'000s of Eastern European and Asian girls. I f-closed Romanians, Ukrainians, Russians, Serbians, Japanese, Indonesian, Korean, Vietnamese.... this list goes on.
If there's any interest from the community, I'll post some of my exploits, from a girl who sat her pussy on my forehead when I asked her to sit on my face, to getting caught f-closing a Japanese girl on a railway platform.
I believe I did well in Europe for a combination of reasons:
1. I had a good circle of friends (though no PUAs)
2. A great apartment, every girl I brought home cooed and "ahhh"d
3. A great interesting job, well paid. Making video games and movies.
My problem is that I've been in the US for 5 months and have only f-closed ONE GIRL. She was a HB-9, would have been a HB-10 if she had hit the gym. I'm dating a HB-8.5 right now (that I picked up while I was jogging and covered in sweat ha!), and I'm determined to f-close, but I notice US girls text / communicate differently than EU ones.
Now there's obviously a glaring weakness in my game. In Europe I'm knocking every ball out of the park and making my friends crazy with "how the fuck did you just do that" day game. Now I'm in the US, it's like a whole other ballpark, the rules are different, and I need to learn them. Like everything in America, the stakes are higher and the spoils are more rewarding!
There are two possible reasons for my lack of US success:
1. my life situation, i.e. traveling, no apartment, no job etc is putting off the US girls (by the way, I am financially independent)
2. the rules are different here, and I don't know them
3. or both!!!
I love and respect women, I'm not here to call them ho's or give them a bad time. I know some people roll that way, so I'm letting you know now that it's not my thing.
I'm also here to make friends, brothers, and to bring out the best in those around me. Let's trade stories, have adventures and create some memories.
Coolhand.
>where you're located: Hollywood California
>your age: 34
>how you got into "the game": ever since my sister's best-friend gave me a hand job when I was 13.
>how long you've been studying and practicing pickup: As a science, reading and learning.. around 5 years.
>which pickup method(s) you like to use: It's really a combination of applying elements that appeal to my character type. some of the canned openers I hear make me cringe.
>what your hobbies/passions are: surfing, cycling, movies, jiu jitsu, video games
>what your goals are: To settle down with a girl who's a HB-10 inside and outside. She's out there, and I'm gonna make her life better.
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CHAT
