Hey, I could really use some help!
In school, there is this girl who I see maybe once a week or every two weeks. I can tell she likes me, but I have not spoken to her yet. My question is: Would it be creepy to add her on Facebook and chat with her, or should I wait for a couple of weeks before I talk to her in real life? What do you think?

Thankful for answers!

Adam from Sweden

Yeah go for the facebook.

when she is on online chat:

you- I'm confused..
her- why?
you- I have been online for like 9 seconds and you still haven't said hi yet! how rude

and take it from there and eventually set up a date and get her number. If she likes you then i'm sure you get away with it.

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Thanks man, I will try that!

Hahahah this is great, will try the same!

I saw a girl in a pub, and I've never seen or met her before. Suddenly, day later I found her on facebook on a random. I decided to send her a friend request just for fun. She accepted the same day (yesterday). I liked few of her pictures just to show some interest, but today I decided that I want to contact her and I didn't know how to start a conversation and not to be a random stalking idiot. This made my day, I sent her that I'm confused, now waiting for an answer.. I'll improvise later on, but I needed to start

Hahaha that's awesome man! Best of luck!

She saw the message but didn’t respond. Now I'm confused, for real xD She did not unfriend me and she did not respond..

Still better than my case. She didn't even accept my request! Wtf!?

See if she rejected your request (button again says that you can add her, not that "request sent" button), if it is still in "request sent" state maybe she just didn't see your request yet.. if she's very popular it is likely possible that she gets alot of requests

Yeah my case is better but really confusing.. not sure what to do. I decided to send another message and this time I went for a sincere but funny game. I texted her some trashy idiotic pickup line and immediately after that a sent her another message saying that is not good enough too and that I'll think of some better pickup line. In the end I sent her some gentleman style opener and she laughed but replied after alot of time.

Then I said that if she continues to reply on messages every few hours or another day, we could arrange for a date in a 10 months or so xD She asked how do I know that we will go on a date, and how come that I did not ask if shes available.

I said that she can ask me on a date eventually and I said that I consider asking her if she is available is somewhat dumb question considering that we barely started texting each other.

She said that she replied late because of studying and spending time with her boyfriend.

I said her to enjoy her time, she saw the message again but did not reply..again haha XD



But the weird thing is that her facebook profile says that she is available and there is not even one picture of her being with her boyfriend or even some random guy. And she still did not unfriend me. I don't know what to do now, should I text her again or what. Don't know, I'm totally confused, these are so mixed signals...

Well, it is very complicated. Sadly, only a few women like giving direct answers, which makes them very hard to understand... Something similair happened a few weeks ago when a girl left her friends and just randomly asked me and my friend irrelevant questions, like she was desperate for a conversation to start. Both of us responded and talked to her, but she didn't show which one of us she was interested in which was very confusing for us. Anyway, her friends took her back and we remained very confused...

I'm not very good at chatting up girls, but maybe you could try sending her funny pictures or vines which she can relate to as conversation-starters?

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