So sarged this lovely bar maiden at a club that I frequent every Friday and sometimes Saturday evenings. My initial contact with her was challenging, as I was slight intoxicated and my buddy was dominating the situation preventing me from any kind of meaningful contract with her. My buddy is going out with another of the bar maidens at the same club, so a huge advantage for him.

The second time I went alone, the club was quiet, and she was bored out of her wits at the bar what wit nobody buying drinks at the time. I immediately approached and got her to talk about herself, with me interjecting with insightful comments and generally getting a tremendous response through laughter and very intense eye-contact. Turns out she I from the UK and moved the my country with her parents, and is looking for a real job. She seems lonely, and is looking to build connections as she has not been her for too long. After keeping her company, I excused myself and approach more women the club, and various groups of people. I returned to say goodbye by hugging her brushing her tit and kissing on the cheek, yet failed to ask for her number.

The third time (last night) I returned to the club, she was not working and appeared to be alone. At first, I did not recognise here, but then realised who she was. I invited her over to join me for a shooter, she immediately joined and offered me a sip of her drink. I could see she wanted to spend more time with me, but my nerves got the worst of me, and she ejected looking slightly disappointed.

I searched for her on FB, and invited her to become friends. I have not yet had a response.

Guys, have I f'd this one up, or is there still hope?

Haha man trust me bro...when I first got started I had many A f*ck ups..

the best thing to do is to move on man...I know it sucks because your like...

damn I really liked that girl...but at the same time...what can you do

if shes not feeling you?

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Yes sir. I do like here, but not that much actually, which helps I suppose

I think you are right though - moving on is the best response. To ruminate on one woman who gave me attention, is faulty AFC thinking.

My only issue is that there are no places to meet women in my city during the week... I'm originally from Cape Town, South Africa, and had to move to Pretoria for work. Cape Town is a party town by the coast, where you can go out any time of the day to meet women. Pretoria is exactly the opposite!

Thanks for the support man!