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PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 5:27 am 
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>where you're located
>your age
>how you got into "the game"
>how long you've been studying and practicing pickup
>which pickup method(s) you like to use
>what your hobbies/passions are
>what your goals are
>and whatever back story you wish to share with us.

Greetings! I am a 23 year student located in Orange County. I ran across some Red Pill literature and decided I am tired of being a beta AFC. Becoming a PUA is beginning to consume my mind.

I have been studying for maybe a week now and have pretty much not practiced at all yet.

I do not know what pick up methods I would like to use. But I have read some of Day Bang and like it's style. No matter what style, I figure I am going to have a very hard time implementing it.

I am starting to get into MMA. I lift/exercise, read, and Netflix. I have a passion for knowledge. I can find interest in almost any topic. The passion I am pursuing is space. My dream is to start an asteroid mining company.

I don't even know what my goals are. Reading "The Game" makes me want be a master PUA. I would like to feel comfortable around women. I want to feel confident in an ability to distinguish and acquire a suitable mate. I want to get rid of that stupid feeling of inadequacy like I'm the only guy in the world he has no idea how to talk to women.

As a back story, I am bisexual and much more confident with men. I have only had sex with one girl. I have had two other opportunities that failed because I couldn't get it up. I am horribly afraid of talking women especially ones I do not know. But I have had many sexual relationships with men. I guess I'm probably gay. I do know that I am attracted to women though. I don't know how anyone could not want beat up a nice tight vagina with his penis. So to add to my goals I would like to feel confident in knowing where I stand with my sexuality.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 1:52 pm 
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Hey man welcome to the forums bro!

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 10:23 pm 
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Welcome!


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 9:43 am 
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Indeed, welcome.

Where you stand with your sexuality is obvious, you already found out you're bisexual. So you have to determine for yourself which gender means the most to you, and set your goals accordingly. Bear in mind that women, despite the fact that a lot of them are at least bi-curious, generally don't like their man to be bisexual. Be careful to reveal your sexual identity before you know how your future female partner will think about it.

"I want to feel confident in an ability to distinguish and acquire a suitable mate"
As I read it, this implies you are doubting your skills to determine what you want. First determine what you really want, only then invest time and energy into learning strategies how to get there. PU is not meant to learn you the skills to determine whether a "partner" is suitable, PU is only a vehicle with which you can boost your self esteem around women, get in touch with them and guide you to your first fuck. But that's just how far it goes. The suitabily-issue requires other dynamics and self knowlege.

My two cents: get to know your own ambitions and sexual direction, determine your target group and their demands and NEVER show insecurity when having contact. Maybe have a profile at SDC and/or fetlife, see what other openminded people would demand of you and see if you can play that game.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 10:34 pm 
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^ Sexession

Thanks for all the input!

I am definitely not planning on telling any girls about my sexuality.

As far as distinguishing a suitable mate I figure that game can do some of the things you listed but also help me to determine a quality girl. Don't the best girls usually have a strong resistance to game?

Nevertheless, I am beginning to become obsessed with this whole game thing. I understand there could be much more productive or insightful activities I could do, but game is what is primarily interesting at the moment.

What are SDC and fetlife?

Thanks again for the input!

edit: I looked up SDC and fetlift. You have piqued my curiosity.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 10:39 pm 
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Was sex with this girl really fulfilling (the one where you performed?). By that, I mean was it as fulfilling as with the men you've slept with?

Regarding HBs being game proof, in my experience the HB-8s and below have the stronger game shield, because guys approach them the most. Most guys don't approach HB-10s.

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