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Hi, I have a bit if a query about online sarging. I don't have a problem getting numbers, fair enough, I get a few flakes etc but on the whole if like to think I have a fairly successful rate at # closing.
However, I'm just a bit unsure of where you are in the 'seduction' phase. If you've # closed, then I imagine you're through the female-male attraction phase. What next? If you go for comfort before meeting then if would think you would get friendzoned?
I might have this wrapped around my head. Do you continue with attraction? Help please, I could do with reading up on this again but I always like new opinions from you guys, you're great. Thanks.
You are still no way near the seduction phase when getting a number from a stranger you still haven't met.
Don't over think it as a 'phase/stage'.
Your goal after the number is to get her to meet you in a one on one situation (like a bar for a drink)
Then it is up to you and how comfortable she feels to go to a total private area like your bedroom, which is more of a 'seduction phase'
Once you get her number, really don't get your hopes up on it. It's just a phone number, majority of time (especially online) that will be the only thing you get from her.