You've read an awful lot into my statement.

What should it be called then, legal prostitution?

This more to do with your own insecurities than paying for dates. If you're secure in yourself you wouldn't equate paying for a date as being analogous to prostitution.

I see it now in this new perspective: test her (not in a disrespectful way but just to gauge and to instantly calibrate with THAT girl you're with). Test her with at least 2-3 small gift giving or treats (meals, drinks, entertainment, etc) if she doesn't reciprocate back with any of these:rapport/conversation, treats back with food or drinks, returns you calls/text messages, or with gift giving back to you. You either walk away...don't... at least try to captivate her with some push n pull techniques, "man up" a little bit by what I call being the "irresistible asshole", "cocky-funny asshole"....call it whatever? If she's mean be funny mean to her. This thing about not paying for shit if you just want to get laid for that moment then go for it but in the long run she'll get the message "that you are cheap n always broke" and will dump your ass and move on with the next guy but at least be seen as that guy that socializes, spends money on fun entertainment, is generous with his food, money with his family and friends and with these chicks he's with. I got bros that don't even pay, reciprocate, "pitch in" with the rest of us bros and that my friend is not cool. Seriously you don't want to be seen, perceived or even worse what they call in NLP...be associated...anchored in anyway Negatively. You will be permanently seen as a poor, cheap-ass, douche bag if you never have or spend money wisely.

Truth be told...my first date is ALWAYS at my house or McDonalds...

I dont spend anything man. I even have A routine on it. Its posted

somewhere in the forums. You should check it out sometime!

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Those must be some extremely low quality women.

Just ask your mother bro

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To answer the thread's title, it's SITUATIONAL.

If you want to know the what, when, where, how and why, you might want to take a look at this: buying-her-a-drink-scientific-theories- ... 64143.html

Personally, since many women with money are frugal and tightfisted, I bait them with generosity. When I get to f-close, I bang them real good. That's when the takeaway starts.

It's like, if you want your household appliances running smoothly, pay the goddamn electric bill or I'm gonna cut off the power supply. That's when women with money start getting generous with you. You'll regain whatever you've spent at the very least tenfold.

Remember: The way to a woman's bank account is through her pussy.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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