At the risk of sounding like a cheesy, Cheshire Internet marketer (I'm not... YET.), I ask that you please complete that sentence if you choose.

Next: What's your single most important question about dating?

Why would it make a difference in your life to get a good answer for your problem or find a solution for your need? (Details, please.)

How difficult has it been for you to find a good answer for the above to date? (Not at all difficult, somewhat difficult, very difficult.)

Please and thank you, sir!

AB

In my life I have come to understand that your most awesome bed-partner is not per definition equal to your most loving girlfriend/wife. It can be that the woman with whom you experience crazy sexual adventures is not the same woman as with whom you wake up and have an awesome conversation with at the breakfast table to start the day. The woman who makes toast for you and shows interest in your deepest ambitions and gives you warm feelings of love and reciprocation is not necessarily the same woman as the one for whom one look at her 40 kilo petite lithe body sends you off into a frenzy of immediate sexual desire.

Communication, therefore, is key in any good relationship. Talk about your deepest desires. Talk through to her until you unveil and unmask the Christian, sexually exclusivistic notions from the white knight Victorian era. These notions are memes which have been made irrelevant by the onwash of the times. With other words, maybe your girlfriend and you will be able to enjoy sexual adventures if you make each other feel truly loved and understood. Like including the über-thin hot bodied ballerina in a threesome. In fact, this sort of thing can build extra attaction, just for knowing you give each other the freedom to dare things which society would not.

If you rely on the power of your will, one day you can have it all. Communicate clearly, know thyself and your desires, do not rush into things.