Ok il try to make it short. A girl from work ive been friends with for over 7 months (casual chats) Broke up with her 3 year relationship boyfriend 9 days ago. Im into her and always kept good friends with her throughout that time. I took her on a date, the other day, went all good. Then i invited her to my house, went all good then went for chill with a friend had some drinks didn't give her any compliments until on the way home with just her and me in the car. She enjoyed me touching her and eventually we went outside the car at my house and she hooks up with me. However she doesn't want to come back in. Tells me she doesn't want to be more then friends. And says she doesn't want to hurt me. Two days later we still talk and nothing bad in the online convo. Im trying to play it smooth like don't show too much interest. Problem is I want her, Her ex wants her back (she left him) Two of her good friends want her, one of them shes into, but his with another girl but says he will wait for her and he wants a relationship with her. She asked me last night if we were all good and also that the kiss made her feel better. My first impression is to take it slow and just be a cool dude and stay friends and let her get interested in me, like get a sweet beach house and chill there do the romantic thing with her without hinting too much. She is model quality btw at least an 8/10. What can i do to increase my chances. So far Im just having laughs with her and keeping convos chill. But i need to get her interested without fucking it up. I feel like im doing good at this chess game right now but need some professional advice. Cheers.
PS: She's been in relationships for ages so she doesn't know anything about fuck buddy as such.

So let me get this straight, you scored with a hot girl on the rebound... and you are upset that you can't get more?

You got rebound sex, enjoy it and go find another girl. The best way to get her to want you is for one of your friends to let it slip that you are with another girl... hopefully you were good enough in the sack to warrant a second ride of the pony but DUDE... don't chase.

Besides dating in the office pool isn't a good idea.

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No sex just kiss... sorry for the wrong wording

You did good but you could have done soo much better.

If an ATTRACTIVE girl comes to YOUR PLACE she wants sex... she cannot justify actually saying she is going to so they code it by saying. "lets go to your place and do x" x could be play xbox, watch movies, have dinner and so on... but it means she wants sex or a private place to be intimate with you.

Dude also when you say Hook Up with Me... that is adult or college code for "Have Sex w Me" a hook up is her comming over or you going over to fuck her. Kiss her goodbye and leave her to enjoy the post coital bliss.

She isnt calling you because you blew it. She expected you to do more than kiss her and you fumbled on he 1 yard line.

What should you learn, she wanted more than you expected...

Find another girl like her & tease her like she is fashion retarted or notice if they ever trip and call her "cute but clumsy girl"

Teasing shows you are noticing her and confidant enough to shake your head when she does something you find funny or worthy of mention.

"Are you always such a clumsy dork"

If she mentioned... "oh my hair looks terrible today"

Reply with "... I wasn't going to say anything but yeah" with a fairly straight look on your face.

She will laugh or go pout but shit test her... if you are worth more.

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