sorry if this is in the wrong category and if the title doesn't quiet make sense....

basically I went to view a house last week was shown around by a nice girl my age, lived close by but didn't catch her name. 3 days later I saw her at the gym I use and she recognised me and we had a brief chat about a number of a work mate she had given me (deals with financial advise to help get the ball rolling on mortgages) anyway I said no I hadn't got round to it when id actually forgot.

anyway I found her name, found her on facebook like you do but without bumping into her at the gym or viewing a ton more houses just to see her I need a way to stat talking to her and build from there.

I was thinking a fb message saying sorry but I lost the guys number etc but im not to keen on this idea and now ive seen her pics I recognise her from pof awhile back but no longer on there also fb says single so know shes single and looking but how do I build on whats already happened. hope a tiny bit of this makes sense

Youuuuu cyber stalker, you.

You do not mention: were you getting IOIs? I mean REAL IOIs too, not the ones you 'want to see'... A couple quick conversations (one of them strictly professional where she supplied you with a financial partner's number) doesn't indicate interest.

If she didn't indicate any interest at all in you, then you'll need to build some comfort before escalating or you're going to creep her the fuck out.

Making up a lie about losing the number of a guy you're not going to call anyway will lead to a 2 minute exchange where she'll give you the number again... And that's it.