hey guys,

I haven't used this site much so excuse any newbie mistakes. There is this girl I am interested in in one of my classes...let's call her HB8. I have only had this class 4 times so far this semester but she has definitely shown interest. HB8 has gone out of her to sit next to me for two straight classes. She tries talk to me whenever she can (it's hard during lecture) and she does little stuff like laughing at jokes of mine that aren't very funny that seem to me like interest. She was unable to sit next to me last class thanks to some dude that sat next to me but she still sat in front of me and tried to talk to me when she could. My main issue is that HB8 is in this class with one of her best friends which sort of intimidates me when I am trying to make moves and get this girl's number. I am fairly confident that once I can get her number that I can close this one but I need advise on opening to this girl and getting her number when her friend is always around.

thanks

Pick up your balls and ask her in front of her.

should have expected that lol. I guess I just a good way to ask without looking like an idiot in front of both of them in a class that has like 10 people

or just any advise on talking to someone in a class in general. normally I hook up with chicks at parties and at bars here but transitioning from just talking about bullshit class stuff to getting her to come to a party at place is the main thing I am unsure of.

The reason I said just pick up your balls is because you have all the ingredients to cook this thing up, but you aren't because you're unsure of the outcome. Look man, if she's proactively trying to talk to you, interact with you etc. 90% of the approach work is done. Think about it, talking to any girl in a club requires you to gather courage (with the help of alcohol probably) and basically do a cold approach.

In your case, she's already hitting on you in class while sober, that's a winning recipe.

Now, stop overthinking this. You won't fuck it up unless you stiff arm her friend to the face and force this girl to type her number into your phone. So, how about this. I'm always a fan of being juvenile-cute romantic in situations like this because...well, women love that shit. How about writing your number on a piece of paper and sliding it in front of her? You can even do a "asking while your friend is there was a little nerve-wracking." This doesn't bleed alpha-male per se, but she sees a little bit of vulnerability that gets you points especially if she's ALREADY getting after you. Hey, you can start tossing each other little letters because of this too (a perfect "inside" activity that you guys can develop. And its disgustingly intimate for her, in a good way).

The other way...the more manly way, is to say "Hey let's hang out soon, here's my number." The reason this would be awesome, is that her friend will be happy for her if shes a decent friend. AND girls fucking love it when guys do this to them because it feeds the female EGO. Just like girls love getting flowers at work (not because of the fucking flowers, because everybody gets to see how great her life is).

So think about it and pick the one that you think you can pull off the best.

yeah those are all good points. honestly college is too fucking short to just be cutesie about so I think I'm going to go with the "Hey let's hang out soon, here's my number." approach tomorrow in class. worst case scenario she says no and I never see her again after this semester since there are about 9,000 other undergrads for me to make moves on

thanks for the input though