So long story short, im a soldier and i was commanding over this woman soldier and many of her friends

Im a minor instructor throughout their fitness course.

Basically i am not allowed to talk to them throughout the course, and obviously not in a flirty manner, but the course is over and they have all been assigned new posts in different bases.

So basically, there is a girl from the course that i want to hit on/ flirt/ see where things go with her, but, we have zero physical interaction, i never get to see her and it sucks.

I added her on facebook and she accepted my request like 2 minuets after i sent it ( i dont know if this indicates anything but i like to thik its a good sign ).

Now this girl, i dont know how to approach her, even if just on facebook, i want to start a conversation but not seem like a total creep.

How would you guys do it? or would you even advice entirely against even talking to her through facebook?

Thanks in advance to all the replys.

So, You both are still in the same course.?

Actually I would use lines like.. ,,so You add Me and you can't even say Hi.?? "
(She knows U added her, that should get her to reply to your message)

For example:

You: so you add me and you can't even say ,,Hi".?
She: ohh haha, but add me
You: yeah, cause we're not allowed to talk each other throughout the course.. Very bad don't you think.? Bla bla bla..

From now, you have her attention..


That's just an example for you, there are many more ways to do it..
Don't wait for long, just go for it Soldier..


-Romeo10-

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Haha first off i would like to say that im already happy that i signed up to this forum and i think im gonna have a great time here, thanks for the tips!

Secondly, no we arent in thesame course. I was a minor instructor, she finished the course and now teaches combat fitness in another base.

Now to your suggestion, which i think is great, but i have a feeling she wont reply like that she will be like
You: so you add me and you can't even say ,,Hi".?
She: haha, who are you?

i wasnt one of her main instructors...

thats pretty much a deathblow if she replys like that, but then again she might not react like that...

ill think it overnight

You - I'm confused
Her- why
You- because we have been online for 42.5 seconds and you STILL haven't said hi yet, how rude!


Guaranteed good response.

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Alright then..

U could also look if she is online, then go with this..

You: hey how are you.?

She: hey, fine and you.?

You: great thanks.. I need an female opinion on something.. You can help me out.? (:

She: sure, what is it.?

You: me and my friends were discuss, if it's ok to kiss another girl even if you have a girlfriend.. Is it already cheating for you.?

She: bla bla bla


Now you have a nice convo going with her and she already forgot that you guys even don't know each other.. this kind of questions let her feel that she can trust you when it gets too personal later on..


I actually don't have much skills at approaching through text messages cause I like to approach more in person.. But when I try the text game it works very good all the time..

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Thats actually a good idea, and im definitely gonna use that on some chicks but i just feel like in this particular case its kinda way past that, its been to long since she accepted my friend request for me to bust out with something like that.
I reckon its a good idea.
Do you think its critical i wait for her to be online? or can i just send it while shes offline, im kinda busy with studies and god knows i cant sit around on facebook waiting for her.

I think it's probably the best way to do it if she's online.. U could send the message if shes offline also but its nearby impossible to break the ice then.. Try to look time to time if shes online and go for it..


Good luck

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Also she cannot see te message in her mail, and you wont get response