I sincerely don't get it...

The last couple of weeks have been really fucking bad for me. I've learned that the girl I was in love with, and been seeing for the last 6 months was also fucking other guys and had no intention to stop doing so. She got pregnant, might or might not be mine, the kid died. Anyways, that's kind of a bummer, and since I can't deal with her seeing other guys, I had to stop seeing her... So yeah, I'm back in the market, after a good 6 months of break.

I will say this straight up, I need to get laid and also gt a lot of female attention to get my mind off of all this. After all that happened, I also don't feel like playing games or anything to get in bed with a girl, genuine me, that's it and that's all... But here comes the mindfuck...

I do not mean to be cocky or anything, but I am a very tall, attractive young man who also happens to be very charming. I've had my fair share of experience and I am not bullshiting when I say I know what I'm doing with girls... However, for some reason, I seem to be on some kind of curse.

It's been around 3 weeks, I went out 3 times a week. Every night have been great. I have had fun with my friends and made out with at least one girl every single night. I am also not going for the sloppy drunk make out, I don't go for these, I get to know the girl, turn her on, have a really nice moment with her, etc... But for some kind of fuckery reason, I can't seem to seal the deal.

Yesterday, second time in two weeks that the girl I spent the night with ALMOST come back with me, tells me she want to fuck me or whatever, but have school the next day at 8, and end up declining my offer. So yeah, might be because of my logistics (I live 45 min away from the clubs, shouldn't be that much of a problem though because I still used to bring home a new girl every 2 weeks before I started seeing my other girl) or bad luck or who knows!
Also, not only I can't get the one night stand, but I also get flaked every single time. I think it's now 8 times in a row that a girl flakes on me the day we were supposed to meet...

Like, not answering their phones the day of the meeting, etc. Not going to lie, it's getting in my head. What the fuck is happening... I am starting to believe one crazy bitch I fucked a while ago might be a witch and cursed me with some sort of bad luck with girls spell.

Have someone ever experienced something similar and how did you get over it?

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This kind of thing happens to everyone from time to time. But the biggest mindfuck of them all is to get cheated on by someone who you care about so much (and I honestly have no idea what it would feel like with the whole pregnancy/death thing, but I'd imagine that adds insult to injury). I'm not sure if going out and getting all that female attention is really going to help, since nothing is going to fill that void and it's going to throw you off your game. That will cause you to feel like you have a "no-fuck curse" as you called it, and it'll only perpetuate the issue and make things worse. There's nothing wrong with taking a few weeks off and just doing your own thing. Invest time in your hobbies, drink beer with your male friends, and give yourself some time to recover and see things from the right perspective. You'll know when you're ready to hit it hard again.

Regardless, sorry to hear that you're in a rut and I hope things get better for you.

Very common issue. Especially from my own experience.

The problem is, when you're in a relationship, girls tend to give you IOI's because you're not looking for pussy. So in your head you're thinking "omg , wish I was single again, I could get laid all the time"

Then when you become single again, you start to think "oh yeah, here I am girls, come and get me, I'm back on market"

This repulses girls because you're hunting for pussy, the girls can smell the neediness from with in you. 'The hungry don't get fed" so to speak.

The solution:

Just keep doing your thing, have a laugh with mates. Don't try to prioritise pussy and it will auto correct along the way.

You will get laid sooner or later, you will get a fuck buddy and that neediness from within will disappear, girls will start to ioi you and gettin laid seems so much more easier than previously.

This happened to me so many times. I just split up with girlfriend a few months ago. But been focusing a lot on my passive income so girls are not on my priority and you know what?

I keep having the shittest nights then something freaky happens like I get opened and I have been taking girls home consistently every time I go out. It's getting to the point of stupid and I get worried that girls are gonna take up too much of my time that I could use for my priorities. Sorry for sounding braggy, just being honest..

How this helps.

TLDR version:

Don't focus on girls too much, that's when the pussy comes

P.s. Living 45mins away can't help things either, I'm sure you could of taking home some of these girls you have made out with if you lived 5mins away.

P.p.s try POF , so easy to rack up the numbers.

P.p.p.s maybe treat yourself to a nice classy escort lady, might help things if you are into that scene

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Not going to lie, I have never been this depressed in my life.

I have started consulting though and without it, I would probably still be in the "no eating/sleeping" phase, which only lasted 3-4 days thanks to it.

The craziest thing is that it's not about girl not being interested cause I look needy or anything. They are UP for it, they have having an amazing time, I can see in their eyes they love it, and they want it. but for some reason, it simply doesn't happen where I can fully seal the deal.

I get what you're saying, but right now, I feel like being alone is the last thing I want. I need a "rebound" and it shouldn't be that hard.

Oh, and before anyone says it might shows in the club that I am depressed when I go out, it doesn't. Thanks to a special (legal) substance I consume, I probably look like the happiest guy in the club, and I don't look wasted or anything either.

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^ this! You have an agenda of hooking up to forget onitis, is coming through in the subcommunication... You are also probably putting to much pressure on yourself which gives the "commission breath" which is when a sells man is so desperate to meet monthly quote. Forget all this crap! chill relax take the pressure off yourself and it is a matter of time pussy will come.

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...alcohol?

Might explain the depression...

Look man, you're a grown up,

'Illegal substances' are painting over the cracks, but the cracks are still there, the girls can smell it on you despite what you think and how awesome you are when you are on them...

Whatever pain you feel, the girl will feel,

Whatever happiness you feel, the girl will feel (with or with out drugs and alcohol)

We can can even smell it through your posts.

Take a chill pill (NOT LITERALLY!) . Surely you have some other things that you would like to do that doesn't require the validation of girls?

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No is not alcohol is some stupid crap, which is not illegal drugs or alcohol.

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Mr Matt, as everyone has said in this thread. It is very common and happens to the best of us. In my experience, i've found myself extremely frustrated at not being able to do what I was so damn good at doing. I soon found out that it is more to do with the energy you are giving off then anything.

I have a suggestion, the next time you go out and about, don't let "getting laid" be a thought in your mind, in fact! don't try at all, make a deal with yourself that even if a girl is throwing herself at you, you will not pursue. You may be surprised how quickly things turn around when you're not trying.

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Happens all the time. Ups and Downs.

I was seeing a SHB9(The rich type). She was really fucked up and had massive baggage. It was a really fucked up relationship, absolute mind fuck. Thing was coming to an end and she said she was pregnant with my kid. A week or two later she tells me she's had a miscarriage. I knew a doctor who said how she described it all happening was impossible. There's no way it could have happened and the chick was such a nutjob she would have lied about it. Still, it really fucks with your head and gets you down to a level you never thought possible.

I ended up getting really drunk one of the nights, made out with two lesbian girlfriends(Don't ask me how) then went back and fucked the ex after a "dry spell." I regretted it and after that I moved on and felt better knowing it was one big fucking mess I should have walked away from a long time ago.

That's not to say it's for everyone -- it definitely isn't -- but you're not alone in the fucked up shit that happens. You'll have ups and downs that can last from a week to a month or more and it sucks. It saps away at your confidence, you start forgetting things and fail at approaching when it otherwise would have been as easy as counting to three. I've been in downs where i've had to relearn most of PU and completely rework my inner game just to get back on a confident enough level to see IOIs women were giving me and acting on them.

You'll get over it, i'd personally suggest taking a week off and just shooting the shit with no pressure to hit on or fuck women. Whatever comes your way comes your way, if you hit it off or don't just don't take it too personally or even care about it.

You are creating too much pressure on yourself and you are too harsh for yourself. The best results you will get with PUA, is when you are relaxed, no pressure, not needy, and just having fun. Good to hear that you are confident about your looks, this will definitely help you. But looks is just a part, your game should be solid too.

My advice: put no pressure on your self, have fun and enjoy the gaming. Of course, it is a number's game, you lose a lot, a win a few. And it is all about the few