I'm struggling with knowing what to say to girls.
I have no idea what to say. Like how to be challenging, build rapport, DHV? I'm unaware on a basic rule of thumb. If someone can fix this, they'd SOLVE my entire game.

I end up losing attraction as the convo is going on.
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Here are some examples, they don't capture the essence of my issues but most of these got no responses and lead to no #'s and meet ups. I wasn't at to interest them. HOW DO I FIX THIS?

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I'll give you as simple of an answer as possible....

Talk about whatever you want to talk about.

Seriously... talk about the things you like. Talk about things you do.

All you have to do is ask a question related to something you want to talk about. I call this a "loaded question" meaning that you are expecting a certain type of answer.

If you were into skiing you could ask something like:

"Have you ever been skiing before?"

If the girl says yes, you talk about a skiing experience. Tell her you think she's adventurous. Really whatever you want to talk about from there. Ask her a question and then LISTEN to her response.

The key to being a good conversationalist is being a great listener. Start paying attention to what people are saying and then respond.

My friends call me "mr bullshit talk" because they dont understand why girls find it attractive when i just talk talk talk about whatever in such an enthusastic way. For example during comfort building if the conversation goes flat after some intense topic i just go ahead and talk very enthusastic about some complete unimportant thing i did today or i create something in my head. I told a girl today "Oh you know what i tried today? In the night it was such a heat in my room so i thought it would be a great idea to put some water in a pot beside my bed to chill my feed in. In was really nice. But the downside is i just dreamed about myself being in a flat river and stuff like that. Wasnt a cool sleep after all" I didnt tell it in english so maybe the language isnt good after all....

I mean as long as it is funny and enthusiastic you can really talk about ANY bullshit and they will just love it.

Cheers

What Majikal said. No rules. Just what you want to talk about. Worry about your physical communication, not your verbal one. The entire thing is just two people feeling each other out. Physically communicating with one another. Feeling each other out feels damn good. You should try it sometime. Verbal stuff...meh.