Hey guys..need some help with a supermarket checkout girl. Please read even if you can't/won't give any advice, it might help you in a similar situation.

Ok this checkout girl looks sooo cute. I know these types smile and stuff because they in work mode etc, but this one was different. It all started 2 weeks ago on a Sunday, where I was in the queue she was serving. She kept looking towards me and I held eye contact every time. When it was my turn I made small talk and asked her if she works on Sundays only (to find out what days she works). She told me she works on Mondays and Wednesdays too. So I told her I'll see her on Monday and said bye and that's where I think I ruined it.

I couldn't talk to her more because there were other customers behind and she seemed a bit nervous. Anyway I went to her till on Monday again and this time I just acted all AFC. I kept smiling at her and she was just looking not smiling. when I got to her this is how it went.

Me: How are you.
HB: Fine with a forced/nervous smile
Me: See I told you I'll see you today
HB: that faint smile again as not interested.

and then when I was going I said to her I'll see her on Wednesday - how stupid can a guy (me) get to make me say things like these is beyond me.

Then on Wednesday, I made sure I go to the till in front of her so she could see me and smiled at her when out eyes met. she didn't smile back, but kept looking.

Today I went to her till again and luckily I was the last person. she looked and gave me that faint smile. This is how the convo went.

Me: (with a mischievous smile) Don't you get bored of seeing the same people everytime?
HB: gives me a big smile and starts laughing a bit.
Me: (again smiling) So does that mean you didn't miss me?
HB: (with that small smile) £5 please.
Me: Ok (and I start paying). So what time do you finish today?
HB: 10 pm
Me: Not long to go, do you live close by?
HB: told me a place close to here
ME: Ohh cool just a bus ride away then.
HB: I drive.

Then I smiled and said see you next time. she gave me deep eye contact this time, but didn't say anything and no smile, but was acting like she not interested or scared of me lol.

That's how it went. what do you guys think? and sorry for the essay type report. I know this looks like it's oneitis, it's not but she does look very cute. I've done say game in supermarket with shoppers and got their numbers, some flaked (happens right). I'm still learning, but have I messed it up big time with this one? Should I just move on and ignore her? If not, when should I go to her again and what would you guys do in this situation?

I can go to the supermarket again today (it's close to where I live). Damn I seem desperate but am not. Just don't want to miss the chance of getting something out of this, even if it's experience of losing, but I have to try.

Thanks Bros

Ok. Guess I messed it up big time . No worries. I'm still going to ask her for a cup of coffee next time just for the fun of getting rejected. I love it. Seriously guys now that I think about it, it's all fun getting accepted or rejected..haha

And for those who don't want to get rejected, please don't do what I've done..well not all of it anyway.

Peace

With checkout girls, the girl who looks deep into your eyes and makes a lot of mistakes whenever you're around is the girl that you can easily isolate.

Before getting into PUA, I use this line to gauge how attracted a girl is:

You: Do you have a boyfriend?
Girl: No. (A girl will say she doesn't have a boyfriend when she's attracted to you even when she has one.)
You: Well, now you have one.
Girl: Who?
You: Me. (Or point to yourself and then playfully say...) Don't let other guys hit on you from here on because now you're mine.
Girl: (Either she rolls her eyes and gives you the fuck off look or she smiles and giggles.)
You: (When she smiles and/or giggles...) I'll wait for you at your time off. Let's get some refreshments after work, okay? (Otherwise... Eject.)

When a girl is smiling and/or giggling and continues to do so, DON'T fucking eject. Isolate. Hold her hand. Kiss close.

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"This checkout girl looks sooo cute." Sorry, that sounds kind of feminine and gay. Just say, she looks cute or attractive.

Telling her when you'll next be into the supermarket to see her (not to do your shopping!) was the kicker for me. Makes it sound like you've got no life.

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-Hellhound
I know what you mean bro when they make mistakes around you. Problem is it's hard to isolate when she working on the till, as mostly there are customers or even her colleagues around so I think they are careful not to look easy in front of colleagues and usually have their bitch shield up.

-Apples
I just said that because she does look cute . Am not gay or feminine. But thanks for your reply though, and I definitely won't tell her that she looks cute at such an early stage.

-Cliff
You are spot on here. I feel the same way and know enough normally not to do/say that. But dunno if it's AA or just because I've got limited time (and she's at work), that I end up doing stupid things like these. I might as well go and tell them "hey don't go out with me as I got no life". Come to think of it, this line might actually work better than my stupid mistakes lol.

I went to the store again. This time I actually needed something urgently. Went to her till because she had the least customers. She started her staring and smiling as soon as she saw me. I didn't say anything this time, just gave her a smile and said thanks when she gave me the receipt (again that deep look) and then left.

Read my previous post again. Know her time out/time off and then isolate her during her time off/time out. I got laid several times this way.

Not clear enough? Here's the deal.

I sarge checkout girls and working girls at the mall. I usually do this during afternoons at around 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. The shops at the mall (we have several malls) usually close at 9:30 p.m. so working girls who work full time usually check out of work at 10:00 p.m.

For example, if I finished sarging at 4:30 p.m., I go to the internet cafe to work. I do online work for a few small businesses. When I'm sarging the malls, I log out of work somewhere around 9:00 p.m. then go back to the mall to fetch the checkout girl/sales clerk/store manager/etc.

We eat dinner together and I see the girl home. I k-close along the way and f-close on day 2s.

Is that clear enough fer yah? Now, go and just do it. No more excuses bro.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Haha bro just say "We should text sometime"

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