Okay, I know I probably am driving you guys crazy as well... But here is the text convo after date number four. Please read from below to up.

Her: Let me know when you're done tomorrow

Her: : )

Me: Yes we should... looking forward to seeing you again soon.

Her: Gute nacht Daniel : )

Her: Maybe if we both have time we can meet up for a bit

Me: You have a good night and sweet dreams! Thanks again for the wonderful evening! gute Nacht!!

Her: You did not keep me awake. I'm still up. I'm surprised. I'm sitting inmy kitchen watching an episode of friends and reading a magazine

Me: Yes, I will try to catch some sleep now. And you probably are tired as well since I kept you awake that long. Sorry for that again

Her: It's very kind and thoughtful of you

Her: I appreciate it

Me: Since you drink alcohol and I don't.... i feel more comfortable that way. And it really is not a big thing. Will do it again.

Her: SOO sweet

Her: aND for picking me up

Her: Thank you for driving all the way out here again

Her: Hopefully we will see each other again before Paris

Her: That's a fancy 5th date huh

Me: Date number 5 in Paris? Lol

Me: Me too

Her: And I'm excited about Paris

Her: Aw : )

Me: Of course I would like that. Actually looking forward to it already

Her: But yes, I would like date number 5

Her: I'm not sure if you do. I hope you do

Me: I asked you... But... you really think I don't want to?

Her: Would YOU like a date number 5?

Me: But I will let you catch some sleep now. You looked soo tired and I am sorry for keeping you up so long.
Have a good night and pleasant dreams! you think there is a possible chance for date number 5?

Her: I'm sorry :/

Me: Yes, I am in bed already but not sleepy at all. My biorhythm really is messed up.

Her: Are you home safe now?

Her: I told you you were smart

Me: Right... clever move, thinking about it now. Lol

Her: Lol. And you were leaving anyway. So really all you had to worry about was getting smacked ; )

Me: You are right... it is uncomfortable. Strange as it sounds. i thought what could possibly happen? I either get smacked or kicked out.

Her: I can't wait! I think the comfort zone is uncomfortable, lol. I was surprised , but it was a good surprise

Me: We will have some snow in February. I am sure about that. The comfort zone can really be a pain. I am sure that came as a surprise to you. Surprised me as well.

Her: I was really hoping for some winter : (. I also enjoyed the evening with you

Her: Thank you for being the one to step out of the comfort zone

Me: And I again enjoyed the evening with you

Me: It is 5 degrees celsius, compared to 1 degree earlier. Summer is coming.

Her: Wow, I'm surprised that it's warmer. What's the temp ?

Me: Not much traffic this time of the night. and temperature rose a little as well

Her: That was pretty quick. Good, I'm glad it's safe

Me: In Kaiserslautern now. Roads are clear.

Dude. Take action. Set a date. Don't keep asking her about the date just fucking take action. Also don't say sorry for keeping her up. If she wants to sleep she goes to bed, what are you sorry for.

Also you kissed her. She liked that. If she doesn't she will stop talking to you. Anything that is out of the comfort zone is good because it shows her that you have balls. Which is a very attractive manly quality.

I swear to god if you fuck this up and come back here and open a "how to get her back" thread I'll slap you in the face

That does give me hope... So you don't think she changed her way of thinking/attitude towards me since last date?

Can I ask you a couple of questions ? And I want you to think about this seriously before answering.

You went on dates before. She tells you she likes you. She tells you she wants to meet you. Do you think she changed her way of thinking/attitude ? Does she stopped talking to you ? Does she not want to meet you anymore ? Did she not tell you that she was looking forward to meet you ? Do you realize how idiotic your questions sound ?

Maybe it has to do with the fact that the frequency of our texting went south a little, compared to the beginning. Or maybe I am just interpreting too much negativity into all that.

She left for Italy this Friday and texted me in the evening when she arrived to tell me they made it there, asked me how my day went and my plans are for the weekend.

Told her I was meeting up with a friend on Saturday (did not mention whether female or male; we did not talk a lot about friends or their names yet). She right away wanted to know which friend that was (did she think I was having a date or was she just interested?).

Yesterday night she again texted to tell me a little about her day or maybe just say hi.

And yes, we have a date planned for next week Saturday. On Wednesday she sent me couple of texts explaining what days she has to work which shift and what day she will be off. She then suggested to meet up the only day she is off the next ten days. And excused again for being so busy.

I don't know... This really messes with my head a little.

I don't personally like conversations that lead nowhere. No offense, but There's way too much fodder in your texts and not enough DHV. I think text game should be short and sweet, that's what drives me crazy. Based off her texts, she's not very assertive, ask "what times are good for you" by now you should have a good idea of her schedule and make the date. With her working so much you've got a shoe in for a quiet movie night man!

You need to escalate at this point. She likes you but she's losing interest because you're not making the appropriate moves. Keep texting fun and short, save the deep conversation and other stuff for in person.

Also, the date is set. Be busy until Saturday. If she texts you wait a couple hours, or even until the evening. "Hey sorry, crazy day!" No need to talk a lot until the date. The less you talk the better, the more you have to talk about on your date. don't ask her how Italy is going, don't ask about her day, be unavailable for the next week as much as possible.