Met a complete dime, got her # and she is definitely investing in the texting. She is a perfect 10, independent and has a good job, smart + really great personality. We agreed to meet up on a first date soon. But I am feeling super needy because she blows any girl ive dated out the water in every way... how do i get this needy vibe off and come off as confident? i have a couple other options so i am not totally needy but i dont want to blow it...

she seems very reserved and makes it clear she isn't looking for a hookup but only something more serious. she claims she isnt easy and really hates the player types, probably got cheated on in the past?... i dont know much about the "relationship" game but i never dealt with a girl so reserved... any date girls like this? any advice?

Dude go to www.badboylifestyle.com look up the article falling in love too quickly. That will give you the answers to your question. Second I'm gonna give you the advice another poster gave me. Right now you're thinking with your emotions because you like her. You're not your emotions. Your emotions are chemical reactions that influence your thoughts. Just relax seperate your emotions from your thoughts and you'll be ok. When you have a thought you feel is needy take a deep breath relax let it go then rethink the situation once you're relaxed you'll think a lot clearer. Just remember you chase her she'll run away you chase yourself she'll chase you. Keep doing what you're doing she's independant show her you're too. Keep living your life and as things progress make her more and more apart of your life.

Hope that helps good luck!!

Well i was thinking about something like this also but i really got an idea how to handle it:

A former girlfriend of me (just a friend) was a girl from the first look definately a 9-10. Gorgeous, blonde, tall etc. but she had a big (really big) mole on her forearm. The first time i met her, i was stunned for the first 5 seconds but after my eyes saw her mole, the situation completely changed. I instantly thought "i bet she has self-esteem problems with that as fuck" and how unattractive i find it.

And this is really the key i guess: Find something about her what "pisses you of" or is not perfect. And when she is that perfect imagine she hes a big mole on her butt or whatever. I think this really helps to calm down when you are confronted with her beauty.

What do you think?

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That has worked for me in the past... Got turned off from a girls laugh (lol), voice or another girl who had hairy arms (ew)... But this girl has a BANGING body, super gorgeous and so many great qualities... I don't know what I can find about her just yet that'll turn me off a bit...

She seems really interested, probably because I am pretty successful and have my shit together + physically fit... She is my age, the younger girls I dated didn't care for all that much, mainly liked me based on the physical stuff... Just don't want to fck this up because of neediness... Best way I know really how to deal with it is to have options but none compare...

I dont know which age you are but maybe you can "downgrade" her by nonphysical stuff. If you and her are 30+, i think she is in a way "desperate" on the hunt for an A-game guy to share gens. Her biological clock is ticking etc. Or if she is younger, maybe she is not the smartest?!

I bet there is something buddy, otherwise just imagine something^^

Cheers and keep us up to date

We are both 23.

She has offered to pick ME up for a date, since I messed up my arm and technically can't drive. Good idea to accept?

Yeah why not. Tease her a little like "but dont imagine anything is gonna happen. You have to bringt me home lattest 1am and you have to concentrate on driving ". But i think investment of her is always pretty good. With this little challenge/neg i think you are going in a good way. Just dont make it too easy for her you know.

Cheers and good luck man!