Hey guys... once again, need some help from you. Let me tell you my story first. I'll try to keep it short, so you won't be like "Didn't read LOL"

So I was in relationship with girl, let's call her Anna. It was going pretty well for some time however some problems were there. I was able to handle them well. During this relationship I met Katie. I friendzoned her cause she didn't seem to be type of girl that I would date. She was giving me some IOIs, but still she was one of many friends I have. But one week, there was family tragedy and I lost 4 family members at once. I was crushed. And as I was really in shit, then Katie showed her real side. One day with friends she noticed, that I'm not in my skin. So she grabbed me, pulled me away from everyone and asked what was up. I was trying to dismiss this talk, but she didn't let me. So I told her. Since then, she was all around me, distracting me and so on. [Note: We had lot of comfort, kino and hell of IOIs with Katie since then] I realized pretty soon that she is way much better than Anna. I broke up with Anna as I wasn't truly happy with her and I went after Katie. After few weeks I recovered from all the bad stuff and put myself together again. Mainly thanks to Katie. So I made move (tried to kiss her) ... but... got REJECTED! She said it's complicated between us, but that there is some chance one day (my personal translation is PURE FRIENDZONE). But she continues to set up lunches, walks, meeting, initiates convo and so on. However, truth is, that I developed some feelings for her and I can't be just friend but also, I don't feel like freezing her after all that.

So do you guys know how to escape this pitty hole? Ignore, just wait or freely attack with every PU weapons that I have? anyway... I know that whatever I do, I can loose her, but doing nothing will slowly kill me...

PS: LOL hope it's not too long for lazy readers...

No ideas? Really?

Don't be too available and don't make it to her lunches, walks, meetings.

Show her you want to be with her romantically. If she rejects you again, then she's not interested.

Move on, get with other women, and maybe she'll realize what she's missing out on.

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Because of the friend situation it's hard but you have to freeze her out as much as possible. Short sentences when you talk to her and make sure you aren't talking too much about things that are too serious. Keep it light and fun with her and show her your fun side as much as possible. Avoid any serious conversation around her and after awhile you'll just have to take the chance and make the move, and like the guy above me said sometimes it doesn't work. The best route from there is to show her what she's missing by dating other girls. Also make sure that you have other options and don't get your feelings too tied up with her because then your going to mope around her and not be as fun as possible.

Here's my 2 cents. She was interested in snagging you, possibly just to one up Anna. She might actually legit be interested in you, though. I'd keep hanging out with her, but maintain a little kino distance. Don't be too available, and make an effort to avoid oneitis by gaming other women in the meanwhile. It sounds like she's concerned that you may be seeing her as an emotional crutch.

PULL OUT THE FUCKING ARTILLERY. Don't play it safe. Be willing to fucking lose her. What are you really losing? a FRIENDSHIP?

THat's sweet but you don't want a friend ship. you're doing HER a disservice and yourself a disservice if you fall back like a pussy. Now is the time to be bad... be bold.... even if you go in for a kiss and she resists a little. Act like you can't control your sexual desire for her. You've done Kino with her already... go BIG BAD AND BOLD baby.

If you play it safe to hold a friendship you're gonna live in regret and you'll be fucking miserable.

Be willing to take the chance... I think you got something here but she's not gonna make it happen. YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

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