Hi there, here's George - a newcomer to this forum,

In this topic I'd like to talk about the frame listed above. Truth be told, most of you (I hope not too many) would fall into the category of guys who are higher on the ladder, that being 1-10 then the girls you approach on the infield basis. The frame could also be called 'the selflove frame' or the 'narcissitic frame', since during your approach and midset you drop statements of intent that boost your value, sounds simple.

My dilema with it is, the way you boost your state to that level of narcissism. I already heard some tips on how to achieve that level faster. One being that you roll in the venue with a couple of hot girls. The easiest way is to make friends with hot babes, I know it's difficult, but that will up your value in a matter of minutes. Then all you have to do is act it out in a 'hot stuff' manner. I find it this type of frame to suit my personality the best, although I don't really use it.. Therefore I'd like to hear your opinion on this topic.

I've searched for this topic already and didn't seem to find the answer I was looking for, so I decided to make one on my own. I explained that for me 'the hunt is much more fun then the catch', so please, leave your opinion on this type of frame and how you handle it if you do and if you don't, you might use it in some sets to keep the fun in the game.

Looking forward to any feedback positive or negative,

Cheers!

I think the, "I'm too good for you," frame is along the same lines as the, "I'm the prize," frame. Depending on your style, I think it can be really important or not very important.

Do you use this frame?

Sounds to me that it's a tactic to hide your insecurities, but maybe it's just me

Taking that frame too far can make you arrogant, and nobody likes arrogant people. I would like to change "I'm too good for you"-frame to "you have to prove yourself worthy"-frame. With that mindset you will less likely be arrogant, and you will definitely not be needy or a try-hard. Just talk to people and be curious about them, but nothing more (in the beginning). If you see that a girl invests back in you, she has proven herself "worthy" for some more IOI's from your part. And on it goes, back and forth. If she stops investing, she is no longer worthy, and you stop as well.

This goes back to good old fashioned qualifying, what I would say is to always have in mind that you've gone over to speak to her. Now it's her turn to make the effort to show that she's worth your time. As long as this is done in a playful way, you're not going to get a negative reception. After all with the right opener, and a minor compliment what girl isn't going to like a compliment.

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