How do you demonstrate pre selection? Is it mandatory?



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2014 3:37 pm 
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How do you demonstrate pre selection with a girl that you've never met and she has no idea who you are? I'm not one to think that pre selection is mandatory, all you need to do is approach a girl and build rapport, etc.
Are there any cases in which you guys think that pre selection is mandatory? If so, how do you do it?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 30, 2014 9:02 pm 
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Anything guys?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 30, 2014 11:04 pm 
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Pre-selection is just one form of DHV, you should use as much DHV as you can subtly convey and pull off.

Pre-selection is easy to demonstrate, just talk about

1. Weird ex dates which hot crazy chicks were really into you
2. your hot ex girlfriend (discretely and relevantly brought up)
3. Girls are your work or around you that do weried shit to get your attention

these are just some easy suggestions, as with any DHV she has to be receptive to initiate them correctly which requires some measure of social calibration which many beginners dont have and thus ham-fist it.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 2:33 am 
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Ok cool, if you are yourself though, can you think of there any ways to DHV?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 7:51 am 
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Here are three (or four?) more ways to demonstrate preselection.

This is a long term method. Go to the same club frequently, get to know the people there and pickup girls without this method just to get them to like you. Make whatever you want from these relations, fuck them, friendzone them, whatever, as long as you build healthy and positive relations. Once you have this social circle established, the next time you meet a stranger you will demonstrate preselection just by knowing the others in the club. A more short term method of the above is to bring female friends to the club.

Now for a method that you can perform during a night. Just mingle around and get to know people at the club for a couple of hours (it depends on how late you go out). Make sure that you contribute to every social interaction and make people happy. This way you make them want you to be with them, and they will tend to chase you, maybe say things like "hey, get over here". Such things demonstrate that you are a popular guy, and if it is a girl who does it you have successfully demonstrated preselection to others.

A final and more subtle or suggestive method... If you are alone and have not yet built a reputation like I described above you can (and this is probably the only almost mandatory thing) suggestively communicate preselection by having the abundance mentality. This is an inner-game-thing from RSD, and I think it is Julien's idea from the beginning:

http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions ... mentality/


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