The town I live in is a college town and the majority of the girls I talk to are college girls between the ages of 21-23. The problem I have with the college girls is that they are so damn finicky. The only thing they seem to want to do is go to the bar and get trashed with their friends or stay home.

I have hooked up with many girls around here, but its always from meeting them at the bar and then going home with them that night. Even after hooking up, trying to make plans is almost impossible and they most always flake out. They seem to spook if you try to go on a date like the movies, dinner, or just hanging out at either my place or theirs.

Well there is this one girl that I have been trying to get after, but the only time I see her is out at the bar surrounded by all her friends. She almost always leaves the bar early and rarely stays til close. I have her phone number and am friends with her on Facebook. We have definitely flirted back and forth at times so I know the potential is there.

I would like to hang out with this girl outside of the bar, but I am just trying to figure out what to message her in order to make this happen. I hate leaving things to chance that this will all happen when we cross paths at the bar.

I want an approach that wont leave me looking like an a-hole if it doesn't work, because I see her often and we know a lot of the same people. If this was some random out of town girl it would be much easier and I would just go for it.

Any thoughts?

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls

Do it in person.

Just pull her aside from her friends. Say you are borrowing her.

If you don't want to leave seeing her to chance - message her one night before you go out asking if she's headed to the bar as well... then tell her "Great - you can buy me a drink..."

Then.... execute in person.

Well as you know, the college girls love to pregame. I didn't know if on a night she is planning to go out, I should ask her if she wants to pregame and get a small bottle of something. Then we can go to the bar together.

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls