I'm the one who believes the fact that a person who throws a pick-up line at the right moment is the greatest one and the worst one could be a person who just throws a pick-up line before even getting to know the girl.

Therefore, to reach that right moment, a small natural conversation needs to take off which I completely lack somehow since I'm too straight that all I can think of is just chick's body. I'm trying to learn that basic conversation skills and good humors from the late night talk shows. (please recommend me other sources If you think I'm doing it wrong)

english is my 2nd language and there is a limitation of me leading a good conversation so I've got to learn by watching other people talking which I believe is the most practical way.

So my silly question is as follows,

which late night tv host you think has the best conversation skill towards the female guest?


1. Conan O'brien
2. Craig Ferguson
3. Jimmy Fallon
4. Jimmy Kimmel


if anybody here watches the late night shows..

The fact that you can not hold a conversation, because you can think of the girl's body means that you cannot handle the tense at the moment. This may be caused by some inexperience with girls?? When you loose your head, you loose the game..

And as you indicated yourself, your question (tvhosts) will be found extremely boring by girls. Let's face, if you are a girl, do you care about the tv hosts??

Before I refer you to the PUA material, what would you want to say to the girl, if there is no tension and no pressure of having a 'pick up line'? Then say that to the girl!!!!

Ok, first I gotta tell you that the girls I'm meeting regularly are not an average girls. They are foreign models from Australia. If they were some kind of average looking girl I wouldn't even give a f about how I should talk to them. I'm not saying I want to talk exactly like what tv hosts say to the female guests. I just wanna see a nice chemistry between them so I can learn from it and use what I learnt properly. On a shooting set, i get a lot of time to talk to them. But it seems hard to get a phone # from a model without creating a forced environment. Any help please?

Watch Curb Your Enthusiasm.

Larry David (the main character of the show) is a phenomenal conversationalist.

The BEST thing I can suggest that you do is get a job where you are required to interact with people.

Completely agree with the job advice. Waiting tables for the past 3 years has helped me out phenomenally with my game.

I DID mention above that I DO HAVE A JOB, working with a model. I'm a translator there. When a director directs something to a model, I translate his words in english.

I dunno if this helps, but it works very well for me. I treat them like children. Tease them (in a fun way). I always thought logically and it would kill the conversation. You can't do that. Women are insane hahaha. And if they toss you a logical question, treat it like a kid was asking that. Dawww, lil spoon is asking a big question. Pat on the head, ruffle the hair. Granted, this works for me, because I 100% ooze like a jerkish confidence. I read somewhere, fake it until you make it. When I first started reading about game and such, my confidence was destroyed. It works.

Completely agree with the job advice. Waiting tables for the past 3 years has helped me out phenomenally with my game

I'm a bartender. I could speak to people. It's my job to talk to people. Learning about PUA, the right attitude to have. It has helped me huge.