This has no regards to PUA, however, as part of the community and lifestyle I was just wondering if someone can offer me some advice.

My grandparents had leant me some money, anyway recently died so left it to my mum and uncle. My uncle hasn't been around the last 20 years where as me, my mum etc.. have looked after them.

As soon as my grandad died a few months ago, my uncle came back on the scene, demanding everything, he took all the valuable possessions before the funeral and I was disgusted. Everything was split equally between my mum, her sister and brother.

Anyway, i have been disgusted by my uncles behavior and recently he has found out that i borrowed money from my grandparents, only $2000 for college, anyway, he doesnt know the exact figure, but on one hand im disgusted about how I was gutted through thier death, where as he feels like hes won the lottery and is after everything.

Now this effects my life as it is my uncle, but Im embarrassed by him, and I want to give the money to my grand parents charity. What do you guys think of the situation? On one hand that loan was between me and my gparents and none of his business, on the other some is kinda his?